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Old 01-05-2009, 01:09 AM
 
Location: Kentucky Bluegrass
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This year I have been running into many people from my past I would have hoped to never see ever again. These were a odd combination of old bosses, evil coworkers, old girl friends, distant relatives and bad neighbors. I have also ran into old friends who turned evil but keep calling me to get together and I would never return their phone messages.

Have you ever ran when you spotted one of those evil people from your past in a public place or were forced into an difficult small talk session when you run into people unexpectedly? Tell us your story!

If I would, I'd try my best to ignore them, or just walk away. I wouldn't run, just turn and walk the other way, even if they saw me. If someone is that evil, as you say, then I would avoid them, period.
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Old 01-06-2009, 12:32 PM
 
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Over the summer I ran into a guy I dated around 10 years ago. He dumped me and then immediately started dating an athletic girl (I was a little chubby at the time). Imagine his surprise when we bumped into each other and he saw that i had lost weight since then. BTW, it looked like he had gained around 50 lbs.
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Old 01-06-2009, 12:33 PM
 
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Don't tell tales Amanda we all know you are the one who really gained the 50 lbs. Good story though

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Over the summer I ran into a guy I dated around 10 years ago. He dumped me and then immediately started dating an athletic girl (I was a little chubby at the time). Imagine his surprise when we bumped into each other and he saw that i had lost weight since then. BTW, it looked like he had gained around 50 lbs.
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Old 01-06-2009, 12:40 PM
 
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Don't tell tales Amanda we all know you are the one who really gained the 50 lbs. Good story though
You're right. I just hide it well under my skinny suit
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Old 01-06-2009, 12:42 PM
 
Location: When things get hot they expand. Im not fat. Im hot.
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Yes I do. Quite often lately. I usually ignore them. If they leave me alone then all is fine. If they start something then I cant be held respnsible for what happens to them.

I used to be nice but too many encounters with nasty peeps has severly bent my nice and I think my give a sh*t is broken. .
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Old 01-06-2009, 01:06 PM
 
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I'm glad you agree with me.

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You're right. I just hide it well under my skinny suit
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Old 01-06-2009, 03:22 PM
 
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I am a nice person. I won't let an evil person ruin my niceness. I don't want to write too much because some of you here just might be the evil people I truly hate.
The best thing is to just ignore and walk away. If that person is gives you a predatory look. Than the best thing is to walk in front of him or her to just p o him or her. After all they are the problem not you.
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Old 01-06-2009, 03:34 PM
 
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Yugh I hate the "predatory look"......so irritating. My roommate used to give that look to me...at random times too.

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I am a nice person. I won't let an evil person ruin my niceness. I don't want to write too much because some of you here just might be the evil people I truly hate.
The best thing is to just ignore and walk away. If that person is gives you a predatory look. Than the best thing is to walk in front of him or her to just p o him or her. After all they are the problem not you.
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Old 01-30-2009, 05:22 PM
 
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Default hey

hi,

Omygosh what a topic conversation love these lol.Anyways,today I saw someone I use to have a crush on but now my x friend is married to him.
So I was just like oh god thats him and so mom and I wen't to another part of the stored and he looked at me so we just left.Those people don't deserve a hello from me lol.
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Old 11-30-2009, 05:09 AM
 
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I am a foreigner living in Hangzhou, China. I have lived here for 8 plus years.

The foreign community is small, so I know some people and some know me. There is this one guy who is a friend of a friend, who I would love to kick his ass. For some reason, he has never liked me, is creepy and always looks down on me (why, I don't know.) Unfortunately, I see this ***** occasionally. The last time was Saturday when I was going through the bar with him saying "Hi" to me and shaking my hand. Why he does this is beyond me since he is so condensending.

There are a few people from back home to whom I would kill if I could get away with the crime. However, my life is worth too much to me now to spend it in prison or a death row or whatever.

My rule is to always avoid joining groups and organizations. I have done this growing up in the past and it always bit me back hard. Boy Scouts, wrestling team, church, peer groups, I have never fit in, and there always seems to be some ass who wants to run things or bullies people out. I have always disliked work and school because it requires me to involuntarily be around people I would not associate with. It is not that I hate people, I do have friends and am happily married. It is just the case of me slowly getting to know someone. If they are bad news, I can quickly get out. That was my problem when I first came to China, I decided to change my routine and be open and meet people. By and large a mistake. It is better not to be known or know than be disliked or hated, and having feeelings of pain and revenge. The human race isn't worth it.
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