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View Poll Results: How To Tell A Roommate That He Has Bad Breath
Quick and blunt - "Dude, your breath sticks." 18 30.51%
Sweet and kind - "I'm really sorry to say this, and I know this is uncomfortable to talk about, but you have bad breath." 22 37.29%
Say nothing, but passive aggressively leave mints and gum all over the apartment. 11 18.64%
Other 8 13.56%
Voters: 59. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 02-24-2014, 10:04 PM
 
Location: Auburn, New York
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How should I go about talking to my roommate about his horrible breath?

My theory is that the root of the problem is that he only brushes his teeth once a day.
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Old 02-25-2014, 06:29 AM
 
Location: East TN
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If it's once in a while, I would say "Hey, you could use a mint this morning". If it's chronically bad, then I'd go for the kind but honest. Something like, "I'm sure you're not aware, but if it were me I'd want to know, when you don't brush your teeth in the morning your breath can be pretty awful." He will probably get either defensive or hurt, so be prepared with a further explanation as to why you had to say something, like " I know that can be a real turn-off for the ladies, so just a word to the wise, right?" or " I know you wouldn't want to offend people and most people won't tell you, they'd just get away as fast as possible."
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Old 02-25-2014, 06:37 AM
 
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Cool geez...

try this...'go brush your teeth, your breath stinks'...
K
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Old 02-25-2014, 10:43 AM
 
Location: Western Colorado
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"You have bad breath".

There, wasn't that easy?
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Old 02-25-2014, 10:46 AM
 
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How should I go about talking to my roommate about his horrible breath?

My theory is that the root of the problem is that he only brushes his teeth once a day.

Why is your roommate getting close enough to you that you can smell his breath that easily?
Is he a romantic partner?
He may have other issues that he is aware of but won't take care of or unknown issues.
Bad breath is not only caused by not brushing often. There are numerous things that can cause bad breath. Some of them is related to not brushing and flossing but others are actual medical issues.
Also, how do you know he only brushes his teeth once a day.
You seem to know a lot about what you "roommate" does or does not do when these are things that should be done alone in private in the bathroom.
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Old 02-25-2014, 11:01 AM
 
Location: Georgia
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Just tell hm. If it were you, you'd want to know, wouldn't you? It doesn't have to be judgmental or accusatory, just informative.
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Old 02-25-2014, 11:10 AM
 
Location: earth?
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How would you even know about your roommate's breath? Step away.

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Old 02-25-2014, 11:42 AM
 
Location: The Jar
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How about find some articles on gum disease, tooth decay, etc., etc. and leave them around the house.

Be sure to magnify the type, so he won't miss seeing the words.

P.S. There are folks out there who can open their mouths across the room and emit fumes which travel to the other side.
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Old 02-25-2014, 12:01 PM
 
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"You have bad breath".

There, wasn't that easy?
This. Short, to the point, and overall, a kindness. Bad breath is one of those things that can hold a person back in life, without them having a clue as to why. Tell him.
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Old 02-25-2014, 12:52 PM
 
Location: Salinas, CA
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First of all, make sure you yourself don't also have bad breath before telling the roommate that they do. Suggest they grab the Binaca spray or a breath mint on occasion. Maybe also say "I know people at work that have it worse, so don't feel bad (if true). It is fairly common"

If you feel they might have a problem, you might add some humor. "I knew you weren't perfect after all..aside from the bad breath."

Now in cases where roommates are on different schedules and have little interaction and don't even eat together much, I might just let it pass. I am assuming there is frequent interaction/conversation.
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