Dead set on finding teaching job but never wants to leave Long Island?
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Dump her now, move to where you want and find a nice gal that is willing to grow up. Anyone that uses the family argument when they should be working on becoming independent (their career) and/or their marriage is a boat anchor to the other person.
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Using family and reluctance to consider positions off LI is a huge red flag that she isn't ready to grow up and move forward with her life. She's working only 10 hours (give or take) -- who is laying her bills? Student loans? Clothes? Cell phone? Car? Insurance?
OP - no matter how pretty she may be or how good the sex is, her reluctance to become a responsible adult will grow real old very fast. Find an equal, not a child.
My son and fiance are teachers. They moved from Ohio to Denver 7 months ago and she has a part-time teaching job which will become full-time in August. My son substitute teaches 2-3 days a week and already has two interviews for full-time positions. My advice is to seek a position in another area with the goal of returning to LI after a few years. Good luck.
She went to college and wants to stay here, she was in college when the economy dived to realistic areas...... What did she learn in college ?
Now is the time to take chances at something different and better, not settle to survive here..... and ligirl, id rather be upstate with a life to live than surviving here just because you are close to family.... amazing thought process, depending where upstate there is so much more to life than traffic come home eat bed get up work struggle to survive....
my sympathies to the origanal poster i could never stay and watch this place crash and burn i can't even do it now.
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