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Originally Posted by Kualoa
You are correct not "all" situations are like this. But I said "many" not "all". Your experience and mileage may vary. Young men especially need to venture out on their own, gain independnece, and find their way in the world. The vision of the "slacker" living in his moms basement is becoming a national joke. Staying near to care for an ailing or ill relative is understandable.
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I'm well aware of the slacker syndrome because of all the news articles available in magazines and on the internet. In today's world,
Young women as well need to venture out on their own.
Winkomosis asked in another thread how do all the young people he sees on Maui can afford brand new cars, etc.. The answer is help from
parents/family.
I "talk story" a lot with people I work with and other local people I meet, and from what I've heard (especially if they're from upper middle class to wealthy families), is they got help with the down payment on a house, car, etc., or else they wouldn't have had that house or car. Whether or not the down payment was gifted to them outright, or loaned, varies.
[/quote]On the flip side who wants to have to enforce rules on their grown offspring long after they have reached the age of maturity. Does not sound like fun.[/quote]
What you said is true, but it ignores the economic realities of living in expensive, but
low wage Hawaii. Many local grown children have to live with parents for a while longer in order to prepare for independence and become established.