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Originally Posted by Finland Boy
I think that this is a stupid question but still going to ask it. I'm sure that most of u guys doesn't even know what the darn is Finland or something and I'm sure that anyone of u have ever been to Finland . But I'm from Finland and I'm 15 yrs old living in southern Finland. I've always dreamed about living in US though I've never been to the States. I have a lil cousin there he lives in Cleveland vicinity I assume Frankly speaking I'm sick of Finland and I want some action to my life. I'm so bored here in the backwoods, I feel like I don't belong here So is US so cool to place live like some say and I think? Would it be impossible for a Finnish boy to adapt in the States? Please give some tips!
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Where in Finland do you live? I am from the US.... and i've been to Helsinki, spent quite a bit of time there when I graduated high school. I LOVED IT. I wish I could speak finnish and move there. It was very fun, the people were great (when drunk LOL) and I just loved the city.
There are differences from what i've seen. You come to the US, and most likely when you want to get away, you will get away to other states. Everything is the same but there are some small cultural differences between the states, also very different looking areas (US has the types of climates in the world). You go to Miami while you are here and you will feel like you just went to another country. You spend sometime in in LA and then go to NYC and you see huge differences, not just in the city and the land but the people as well.
However, in Finland if you want to get away you have options that I would LOVE to have here.... so many countries that are easy to go too around, and see so much History. The closest here is Canada (which is different but not MUCH different unless your in Quebec) and Mexico. That is one of the major upsides to Europe.
The people here I would say are a bit more.... social? And anti-social too. It really depends where you are. For example I live in the midwest, and through the midwest and Chicago you will find a lot of friendly people, easy to just go up and talk too. On the east coast in the US you don't see that as much, on the west coast you do. When I was in Helsinki, people did not talk as much if you didn't already know them, except at bars.. this may have been because I was a foreigner however.
People also here are very involved with consumerism, we are a consumer economy (however we are in a recession now that is getting worse so this is changing). We have big houses, big yards, drive cars everywhere.... i'd much rather have the transit system that Europe has. If you are lucky you can find a city with light rail.
No matter where you are, you won't find excitement if you don't make it for yourself. You can't wait for it to come to you.... (tho it is easier to find if your in a bigger city)
The US is not everyones cup of tea. The dream that was the US has changed since back in the 20s... which when people talk about the American dream and prosperity, I personally think of back then. To get ahead now its all about the money, unless you have an extremely good idea you can't just get a manufacturing job making 70k, invest and live well here anymore. College is not as accessible as it used to be.
I came to finland through an exchange student I met in high school. She still lives there... one of her friends I met while there came to the US and she married a man from here, and they moved back to Helsinki it is where they preferred to be.