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Old 09-25-2015, 01:07 PM
 
Location: Sunrise
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The takeaway here is that mean little people have mean little marriages.
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Old 09-25-2015, 01:08 PM
 
Location: Eastwatch by the sea
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A man would have to be insane to get married in today's legal and cultural climate.
Perhaps. Men need to stop catering to the fantasy that society has deluded women with. The whole big wedding, a diamond ring, the honeymoon, etc. Tell her to read a book, if she wants fantasy! Have a courthouse wedding. If she wants a non-courthouse wedding; have the ceremony at home. If she wants a diamond ring; take her ask to the pawn shop! If she wants a honeymoon; take her on a stateside vacation. There is plenty to see and do in the U.S.

Most importantly: be a man in the bedroom. To hell with candles, flowers, and all that girly feces! It's a waste of money and time! Learn how to make her orgasm over and over! Surely, there are classes on how to do so. She'll forget about all the fantasy bull-dukey! Oh, keep your finances tight! And keep your business YOUR BUSINESS! Before you ever start thinking about marriage, talk, talk, talk!

Point is, you'll never live up to the fantasy. If she insists on having a fantasy romance, don't marry her. And for the love of payday and off day. Don't make a child with her!

I've been married for 17 years. Yes, this is my second. The first could have worked. However, I wasn't ready.
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Old 09-25-2015, 01:18 PM
 
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Default no marriage

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Glad to know I never missed much never being married.
never getting married was one of the best decisions Ive ever made in my life, and Im glad I never did it, or experienced it, after getting older and wiser I know it wouldnt have worked out.

I dont want anything to do with relationships or marriage, good riddance!

living the single life is the best thing that ever happened to me,, I guess some people cant stand being alone or not having a partner?

no kids to worry about either
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Old 09-25-2015, 01:37 PM
 
Location: Flawduh
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Perhaps. Men need to stop catering to the fantasy that society has deluded women with. The whole big wedding, a diamond ring, the honeymoon, etc. Tell her to read a book, if she wants fantasy! Have a courthouse wedding. If she wants a non-courthouse wedding; have the ceremony at home. If she wants a diamond ring; take her ask to the pawn shop! If she wants a honeymoon; take her on a stateside vacation. There is plenty to see and do in the U.S.

Most importantly: be a man in the bedroom. To hell with candles, flowers, and all that girly feces! It's a waste of money and time! Learn how to make her orgasm over and over! Surely, there are classes on how to do so. She'll forget about all the fantasy bull-dukey! Oh, keep your finances tight! And keep your business YOUR BUSINESS! Before you ever start thinking about marriage, talk, talk, talk!

Point is, you'll never live up to the fantasy. If she insists on having a fantasy romance, don't marry her. And for the love of payday and off day. Don't make a child with her!

I've been married for 17 years. Yes, this is my second. The first could have worked. However, I wasn't ready.
We did a beach wedding. 5 guests (my mom, my sister, my uncle, her mom, her sister.) Total cost, $1,000. Our pictures came out nicer than 99% of the other ones I've seen.
Our honeymoon was a cheap cruise to the Bahamas: $200 ea.
Her ring(s) were purchased off of Ebay.

She knew that when we were getting married, I was a broke college student. No need to woo her with expensive gifts. Rather, it was what came from the heart, and how things were done.
So far, it's been pretty good.
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Old 09-25-2015, 01:42 PM
 
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In the comments section of this article the women are lecturing the men, lol, God lov'em
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Old 09-25-2015, 01:58 PM
 
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I love my wife... Couldn't see life without her.
Does she read this forum ?

All kidding aside I love my wife and she is one of the most important things in my life.
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Old 09-25-2015, 02:17 PM
 
Location: Eastwatch by the sea
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We did a beach wedding. 5 guests (my mom, my sister, my uncle, her mom, her sister.) Total cost, $1,000. Our pictures came out nicer than 99% of the other ones I've seen.
Our honeymoon was a cheap cruise to the Bahamas: $200 ea.
Her ring(s) were purchased off of Ebay.

She knew that when we were getting married, I was a broke college student. No need to woo her with expensive gifts. Rather, it was what came from the heart, and how things were done.
So far, it's been pretty good.
Bam, and congratulations!!!
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Old 09-25-2015, 02:33 PM
 
Location: IL
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I also read the comments section in this article and got sad.
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Old 09-25-2015, 02:40 PM
 
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Fools, I know how to make a marriage last. Just do whateverthehell she wants or control her every moment. Become a castrated male or an alpha male. End of thread.
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Old 09-25-2015, 02:42 PM
 
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In the comments section of this article the women are lecturing the men, lol, God lov'em
Women love to play the blame game and the victim card. In reality, they share equal blame when marriages go south.
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