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Old 12-30-2022, 01:41 PM
 
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All the churches I've been a part of, or visited, have taught or insinuated that attending church is necessary and required to have any hope of understanding or honoring or worshipping God. I haven't found that to be true. I've instead picked up that attendance (and membership) meets their needs: filling the room, filling the plate / coffers, having listening ears and an audience.
Hmmm. I can understand how at one point it may have been necessary to attend church and hear God's word. After all, bibles weren't exactly widely available or affordable to the general public for a number of years. Plus, a good portion of the general public were illiterate back in the day. So, from that standpoint, it would have made sense to have to go to church to hear the Gospel.

But these days, well...not so much. I even asked my mom a few years ago, why we have to go to church. She said something about "hearing" the Gospel read (great! What if you're deaf?). Tell you what...I'm going to have to spend a little time doing some research on this!

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It's kind of weird to have to go out of the way to go to a specific building and play by their rules, when I can much better have quality time wherever I'd normally be, whether at home, in a park, at a lake, at the beach, or some other place in nature. I guess I no longer have time for rooms full of stifling exhaled CO2, robotic "praise" songs, and canned speeches.
I kind of feel the same way. I get more out of reading the bible myself than I do hearing it read at church.

Funny how you mentioned "canned speeches." I used to say "canned prayers" for hours a day, mostly at home. Then one day, I stopped in the middle of praying. Thought, "You know what, Lord? I can't do this anymore. It feels too fake! These prayers aren't coming from my own heart." There are still a few "canned" prayers I'll say, but sometimes, I'll change the words a bit, so its's coming more from me. Does that makes sense?

But I did find a 'prayer' that I really like. It's called, "A Meditation Before the Blessed Sacrament." I've never used it in front of the Blessed Sacrament. But when I've used it at home, it allows me to speak from the heart.
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Old 12-30-2022, 01:48 PM
 
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Can’t we do both? Corporate and individual worship?
Sure. Not saying that it's an either/or proposition. But I do think that a number of Christians (especially) think it is. And that worshipping God doesn't even cross their minds until Sunday.

I'm not posing this as a criticism, but more like an observation.
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Old 12-30-2022, 02:05 PM
 
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Hmmm. I can understand how at one point it may have been necessary to attend church and hear God's word. After all, bibles weren't exactly widely available or affordable to the general public for a number of years. Plus, a good portion of the general public were illiterate back in the day. So, from that standpoint, it would have made sense to have to go to church to hear the Gospel.

But these days, well...not so much. I even asked my mom a few years ago, why we have to go to church. She said something about "hearing" the Gospel read (great! What if you're deaf?). Tell you what...I'm going to have to spend a little time doing some research on this!
The general arguments for formal worship with other believers center around mutual accountability and encouragement, but in practice I think it's a tacit acknowledgment of the fragility of religious faith if not constantly bucked up with exhortation and buoyed with the implied threat of panopticon-like surveillance.
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Old 12-30-2022, 02:27 PM
 
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The general arguments for formal worship with other believers center around mutual accountability and encouragement, but in practice I think it's a tacit acknowledgment of the fragility of religious faith if not constantly bucked up with exhortation and buoyed with the implied threat of panopticon-like surveillance.
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Old 12-30-2022, 02:45 PM
 
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The general arguments for formal worship with other believers center around mutual accountability and encouragement, but in practice I think it's a tacit acknowledgment of the fragility of religious faith if not constantly bucked up with exhortation and buoyed with the implied threat of panopticon-like surveillance.
It seems there can be little doubt that some form of panopticism is involved with the institutionalizing of religious belief, mordant. It is endemic to the belief in the existence of an all-seeing God.
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Old 12-30-2022, 02:59 PM
 
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It seems there can be little doubt that some form of panopticism is involved with the institutionalizing of religious belief, mordant. It is endemic to the belief in the existence of an all-seeing God.
More authoritarian believers face potential loss of friends and even family, depending on how total the shunning is, if they actually leave the faith, and maybe even if they just question it. I am not suggesting there's some formal surveillance program except maybe in super-fringe groups (like the late, unlamented shepherding movement) but it is just inherent that you're taught you're nothing without Jesus and helpless without his people, so part of the motivation to not question things is the very real potential for taking such a huge social hit. Also, it is made to look way more consequential and scary than it actually is, because personal agency is discouraged and learned helplessness encouraged.
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Old 12-30-2022, 03:03 PM
 
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I second the
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Old 12-30-2022, 07:08 PM
 
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We are made for community. Why you want to be a Lone Ranger Christian, I do not understand. Can’t you find anyone you like?
I do not think we made for community.
First we made to be in 'wilderness'.
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Old 12-30-2022, 07:10 PM
 
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All the churches I've been a part of, or visited, have taught or insinuated that attending church is necessary and required to have any hope of understanding or honoring or worshipping God. I haven't found that to be true. I've instead picked up that attendance (and membership) meets their needs: filling the room, filling the plate / coffers, having listening ears and an audience.

It's kind of weird to have to go out of the way to go to a specific building and play by their rules, when I can much better have quality time wherever I'd normally be, whether at home, in a park, at a lake, at the beach, or some other place in nature. I guess I no longer have time for rooms full of stifling exhaled CO2, robotic "praise" songs, and canned speeches.
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Old 12-30-2022, 09:01 PM
 
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Some seem to think that the "worship" of God means, to spend 24/7/365 on our knees, hands in the air, telling God how "great" He is.

Meanwhile, NO WHERE in the bible does it say to do this.

So, what does it mean to "worship" God?

I think it means not to worship the Devil. God is hard to figure out. The Devil is our life of sin.
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