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I'm a woman, and I'd never assign a person's sexuality based on their bed linens....jeez.
If you like the feel of silk, by all means put on YOUR bed what makes YOU comfortable and pleases you aesthetically.
Can you picture this? Guy brings girl back to his place, things get hot and heavy, and things proceed to the bedroom...you'd re-consider which team he plays for based on his SHEETS and bedspread color? I personally would give a damn, but that's me.
Now if we're moving to a joint space, then (as with anything else) the other person's tastes needs to be considered. My husband actually doesn't care what linens (color or style) are on the bed.
Comforter is fine but hate the sheets. My 16 year old granddaughter likes satin sheets. The bottom satin sheets always get little pills on them and fail to stay smooth to the touch. And they are so slippery that the comforter is always sliding off.
Comforter is fine but hate the sheets. My 16 year old granddaughter likes satin sheets. The bottom satin sheets always get little pills on them and fail to stay smooth to the touch. And they are so slippery that the comforter is always sliding off.
I hate the sheets too. Unless they are really silk, they’re cheap polyester. The comforter is fine, he just needs 100% cotton sheets, and maybe some shams.
I hate the sheets too. Unless they are really silk, they’re cheap polyester. The comforter is fine, he just needs 100% cotton sheets, and maybe some shams.
Agree about the sheets. I believe the material is called, "velvet" or maybe "satin"?
If some guy is inviting me to his place on a date, I'm going to assume "not gay" no matter what the bed clothes look like. Invite me into your bedroom? Even more so.
I come from a time when there was supposed to be a lot more homophobia, but I don't ever recall it crossing my mind that a man showing interest in me might be gay. I do remember some guys who would sit with a seat between them when they went to the movies "so people won't think we are gay" but that always struck me as absurd.
Even more, so what if he were? Doesn't reflect on me any way but positively. And he probably isn't going to try to force me into the bed like some straight guys have done.
If you just take a little time to get to know each other before you jump into the bed you have a pretty good idea of sexual orientation/preferences of many types. You just say "yes" or "no."
Or if you can't stand the suspense ask! "Does you having a pink bedspread mean that you are gay (and what in heck do you want with me?) LOL. Lot of weird assumptions here.
Maybe she's trying to shake your self-confidence a little?
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