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Because for some people, anything outside of certain 'norms' or anything that they have seen issues with obviously cannot work well for anyone else.
Ahhhh. Societal norms. I am not normal. I am still a 1969 Hippie with hair longer then most women. I get looks. I get comments. They judge me. They are wrong because they have not met me to know I am far more intelligent then them. Once someone says hello, and I speak back, my personality outshines their distrust for this long haired nut.
At this point they had to open the book to judge it's content while others judge that book by it's cover.
The 42YO guy, do you think it is bothering him? He knows what others are thinking. He can read that old cliche which is written on every ones face. "look at that guy, I know what he's after". Maybe he is after her love, her touch, her personality, her intelligence. And since this turns the older guy on and it turns the younger girl on then why not hit the sack!!
I just dont get why someone who just turned 20 would even consider someone old enough to be her father.
I mean seriously, even if it does last, he's gonna need Viagra and Depends before she's 40.
Right now I'm hoping that holds true for you. In fact if it happened to you tomorrow it would be fine also. When she is 40 he will be 62 years old, is it that you just can't add or do you have some other issue that isn't apparent? Just wondering, you must still be in highschool, or just don't know anyone older than your self. Can you tell I take exception to your remarks?
Damn it, I went thru this back when I was in my early forties. I told the lady I cared for her too much to continue the relationship and I used an example of when she was 50 and I would be in my 70's. I broke it off with her, and she was so angry with me it ruined our friendship. It started after I had dated her mother for about 6 years and broke up with the mother because the mother lied to me more than once. The daughter's age was about 24 at the time, she had been married twice, and both times had been abused and suffered black eyes. She could see how well I treated her Mother, and liked me very much. About 4 months after I broke up with her mother, she started calling me from another town almost every night. She tried to get me to come and spend the weekend with her. I visited her several times in the daytime and the sparks always fly and she was somewhat agressive. I never spent the night, I knew what would happen if I did. I kind of felt like she was one of my daughters, but she sure didn't treat me like I was her father. It was the hardest thing I ever did in my life, but I told her I just cared for her too much to let her get hurt. She didn't want to hear any of it because her best friend was married to an older guy. She was hurt when she saw I was serious, and said no one had ever loved her. She is still single to this day. Her two brothers and I are still very good friends, her mother, the woman I used to date, is bedridden. Sometime I wonder how things might have worked out with her, she was beautiful and had a very good job, and an athletic build, and very good personality.
Been married to my wife for twelve years and we're still very much in love. We've had our share of ups and downs, but work hard at our marriage. The result being we're both better people. Isn't that what being married is all about, two people bringing out the best in each other? She is 18 years younger than me. And no, I don't need viagra or depends....though I practically wet my pants when she makes me laugh. She always jokes that I should be going grey and losing my hair about now.
A girl that age going after some guy in his 40's has "daddy issues" 99.9% of the time.
And any guy that old who gets involved with a girl that young has only 2 things on his mind - warding off his fear of aging and sex.
Both are just using each other to satisfy sad needs.
Correct, LM ;except you forgot to mention that they find it easier to control and manipulate a hot young bim.. A 35-year-old would not put up with that sort of ''MASCULINITY''. Yuck!
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