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Shortly after going through a divorce I ended up in a situation almost like this. I was 44 and she was 22 and the daughter of a woman I had at one time dated. She was in love because I was the only guy who had ever treated her well and as an equal. She knew I wasn't the average guy, one in a relationship for what I could get out of it. We lived 80 miles apart, she was an Emergency Room Technician who had most evenings and weekends free. I visited her at her home many times and she always wanted me to spend the weekend, but I found reasons to return home and not spend an overnight with her. Finally I told her I was too old for her and she needed to find someone else. She was a beautiful, energetic woman who liked doing the same activities I did, telling her goodbye was the hardest thing I ever did in my life. Today I'm not sorry I married who I eventually married.
Without knowing all the circumstances it is hard to say but one thing I have learned in life if that everything and I mean abosolutely everything happens for a reason.
When I was a teenager, I found many older (30-45) year old women hot. The attraction was fueled both by the physical attraction as well as the 'taboo' factor of having sex with someone so much older.
When I was 18, I had this 30 yr.old lady who was interested in me. She would flirt, act provocatively, call me, make sexual innuendos... But I was too shy to do anything about it. What an experience I missed out on, though!
Why are so many people hating on these two? The age gap is probably a bit much but whatever floats your boat.
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