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Old 02-10-2010, 11:50 PM
 
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When I talk to them, they always seem nice and friendly, and none of them really stand out. This makes it hard to determine who is interested and who isn't. What's the secret?
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Old 02-10-2010, 11:55 PM
 
Location: North America
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I don't think there's a 'secret'. But you should be able to tell unless she's extremely shy. I don't know how to explain it in text...but there's a very obvious difference between simple friendliness and romantic/sexual interest.
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Old 02-10-2010, 11:57 PM
 
Location: Saudi Arabia
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lolz would it be a secret if they let it out lolz ... dude lolz ..its upon u to explore it Capt. Jack Sparrow
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Old 02-11-2010, 12:01 AM
 
Location: Texas
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If they ask you questions about yourself and seem really interested in the responses. And if they make it a point to touch you in some way. Put a hand on your arm or shoulder, brush up against you, that sort of thing.
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Old 02-11-2010, 12:02 AM
 
Location: Saudi Arabia
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However its all in the eye .. doesnt mean u keep starin' at them ..as if u're gonna eat em raw lolz .. just a cool calm look and a warm smile .. move your eye around her face as if u're reading her mind through her expressions .. if she feels uneasy about it ..u'll come to know ..dont ask me how .. i could be stupid but never the cupid ..experience the adventure ..woooooooosh
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Old 02-11-2010, 12:03 AM
 
Location: Saudi Arabia
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If they ask you questions about yourself and seem really interested in the responses. And if they make it a point to touch you in some way. Put a hand on your arm or shoulder, brush up against you, that sort of thing.
cough cough .. is that what u do ? .. i'll get frost lolz
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Old 02-11-2010, 12:16 AM
 
Location: The High Seas
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When I talk to them, they always seem nice and friendly, and none of them really stand out. This makes it hard to determine who is interested and who isn't. What's the secret?
When they jump on your lap and ask for a ride. If they don't do this, they're not interested.
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Old 02-11-2010, 12:38 AM
 
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Scientists need to invent some device that can do this. It's so damn annoying to not know how others feel about you.
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Old 02-11-2010, 01:06 AM
 
Location: Las Vegas, NV
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When I talk to them, they always seem nice and friendly, and none of them really stand out. This makes it hard to determine who is interested and who isn't. What's the secret?
you cant, nobody knows what women are thinking

if she is interested she will tell you or give you some sort of sign, if you cannot see that (god knows i never have unless they made it blatantly obvious) then like me you are truly a social idiot
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Old 02-11-2010, 02:20 AM
 
Location: NH
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It is pretty easy to me.

First way is to ask questions over a period of time. THe more you learn, the further you can go. If she gets uncomfortable, stop exploring. Usually when the convo goes a certain way you can find if she's interested. If she "opens up" and you think she's being geniune, that means she's geniune. If she seems like she's hiding something or not being real, then she's probably not.

Eye contact. If she looks at you and smiles, that's a good thing. Obviously
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