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Old 02-04-2010, 10:32 PM
 
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Has anyone experienced unrealistic events, to the point it seems you were living in a soap-opera. I'm not a fan of overly emotional flicks but without being completely aware, ever felt you were stuck on one?

Now I got another ex who missed me and can't stop thinking about me. The first one who I dumped long ago in 2006, recently contacted me on facebook (I'm surprise he remembered my last name) stating how he's always been looking for me and never found me.

I can imagine when I return to the US, it would be me dealing with both of them. Somehow, this seems cool... handling two at once.
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Old 02-04-2010, 10:40 PM
 
Location: The Mango Tree
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A few years ago, I met up with a guy (casual acquaintance who I had a budding attraction for) in a parking lot of a restaurant at night to give him something (nothing sexual) and what was supposed to be a 2 minute interaction turned into a 3 hour long conversation. We just sat in his car and talked and talked while it rained outside. It is still to this day, one of the most honest conversations I have had with someone. That was a magical night. At the end of the 3 hour conversation, he asks me if I want to get something to eat and we end up going to a fast food restaurant and ordering fries and smoothies and continuing to talk. We were just so at ease and comfortable with each other.

Nothing substantial ever materialized and when an opportunity came up where he was putty in my hands, I realized that I wasn't attracted to him in a romantic context. Ah, c'est la vie.
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Old 02-04-2010, 10:45 PM
 
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Yeah that's live... never hard to find your match esp. when attraction is the main signal. It's like trial-n-error.
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Old 02-05-2010, 04:31 AM
 
Location: Incognito
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My life is a "spanish" soap opera.
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Old 02-05-2010, 01:23 PM
 
Location: Bradenton, Florida
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Speaking of classic novels...I wanted to start my own Christmas tradition with my last girlfriend. Every year we would either read or watch "The Gift of the Magi".
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Old 02-05-2010, 01:47 PM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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Yes, I've dated a few girls who made me feel as though I was trapped in a Stephen King novel.
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Old 02-05-2010, 01:49 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Yes, I've dated a few girls who made me feel as though I was trapped in a Stephen King novel.
You must have really low expectations after all these experiences! Probably even I can't scare ya.
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Old 02-05-2010, 01:54 PM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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You must have really low expectations after all these experiences! Probably even I can't scare ya.
I don't scare too easily, but my psycho-meter is much better now. Growing up around so many of them I think I was immune to them and thus indifferent. Today I wouldn't have the same degree of tolerance for the crazies anymore. Of course there's good crazy and bad crazy...
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Old 02-05-2010, 03:01 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Of course there's good crazy and bad crazy...
Yeah, I can't compete with your crazies alright...
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Old 02-05-2010, 04:33 PM
 
Location: Space Coast
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I've had a few times in my life where I felt like I was starring in my own movie and told myself that I really need to write a book some day.
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