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A few things come to mind when reading this thread:
4. You can pretty much ignore what most women on City Data say in regards to relationships, if what you're after are hot, young, twenty-somethings. Reason? Most of the women here are middle-aged and quite beyond their expiration date. Based on profile pics, I see very few attractive women here. I wouldn't let anything they say bother you.
I suggest he turn gay upon the snap of my fingers.
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Originally Posted by JustJulia
Don't cry, little Artsy. I'm empathetic and compassionate up the yin-yang. Yes, it's clear that the OP has had some rough experiences, no "maybe" about it. He was set up on blind dates with pregnant women and pining welfare moms. I agree with whomever said that maybe he needs new friends. My point stands that being an angry misogynist is not going to win the hearts of fair maidens.
To be honest outside im a much more positive person and dont take my self esteem issues or bitterness towards nto getting women into the public,most women think im quiet but pretty sweet so that isnt my problem
Again, I don't buy that. You can't hide the way you feel.
This sounds like the racist teacher who felt he could hide his attitudes from the diverse students in his class, then complained that the minorities acted up the most. Self-fulfilling prophesies.
That's another thing. Why is it that when a male is honest and upfront, regardless of whether you agree with what he's saying, that he gets branded as not a gentleman?
A gentleman is someone who is polite, respectful, and carries themselves with a modicum of 'personal professionalism', for lack of a better term. Not to toot my own horn, but I've been and done all of the above. Now you may not like what I've shared, or the additional comments I've made on the topic, but that doesn't make me any less of a gentleman just because you don't like any of it. Just means you're (A) on the defensive, because what was said describes you, or (B) attempting to, as someone mentioned, defend your "fellow women".
Just because your loathsome attitude drives women away, doesn't mean there is something wrong with THEM. YOU are the only common denominator here.
very, very, very well-said
the common denominator in all your problems, crises, upsets, bitterness, and complaints....is you
nothing personal, the same is true for every person on this planet
if you don't like what you see in your life, then start taking some responsibility for it. any time you blame any one, or any thing, or any institution, or any gender, "out there" for your own personal unhappiness, you are not taking responsibility for your own self and your own life. You have victim and drama written all over you and who wants to sign up for that?
it is a very simple equation....what you sow is what you reap. What you put out there, is what you get back. If your life is bitter, it's because your thoughts are bitter.
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