Ladies, have you ever had "relations" with your husband or significant other even though you weren't really in the mood? (married, women)

[mommytotwo]

Have you ever had "relations" (trying to keep this PG-13 here), when you weren't in the mood? Perhaps to avoid the cranky, whiny, crabby, "lack-a-nookie" behavior on your spouses part?

I pretty much know plenty of women, if not almost every woman I know, that have done this at some point or do it on occasion, but it has come to light that some women are adamantly against this?

So, I am taking a poll here. (if I can get this poll thing figured out, if I don't get the poll up, feel free to just say yes or no)

[dvcgal]

YES! Who hasn't? I mean, not that I feel obligated just because I'm married, but there was a time after my son was born that it just really took me a little bit to get back into the swing of things and there were times that I really did not want to, but in a way felt like I needed to in order to get back to some normal routine and normal want and drive again.

[moonshadow]

It's still NEVER.

[chazztrons]

Yes many times.

I also felt the obligation.

[Hobokenkitchen]

Totally - and I'm always well into the mood by half time!!

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by dvcgal

YES! Who hasn't?

Yeah, really...

[Rcm58]

Wow one never.

[coffeeaholic]

In a year and a half - there has not been one time I have not been in the mood to be with him. All he has to do is kiss me and its on.......

[ylisa7]

Yes I have and about 5 minutes into it I "am" in the mood. Then I wonder "what was I thinking?" I would never and have never turned my husband down. His happiness starts and stays at home.

[CountryLuvinWoman1]

I have and always felt it was something I should do. But on the other note I would want he to do it for me as well. I can see how men can get edgy if they don't have sex regular..I get cranky when I don't get it too.