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Old 11-18-2008, 02:34 PM
 
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Let's say you're at the bar or at a club and a guy approaches you, what is the first thing you check out before you actually give him the light of day and exchanging words and ultimately numbers. There has to be something that would trigger the act of corresponding him. What is it?
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Old 11-18-2008, 02:39 PM
 
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yo Mr CAT,here are some clues to the answers you seek.


https://www.city-data.com/forum/relat...first-see.html
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Old 11-18-2008, 02:40 PM
 
Location: syracuse ny
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Woman have great periferal vision. That's all I'm going to say.
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Old 11-18-2008, 02:50 PM
 
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Id just like to say that on that poll no woman voted his behind and that is bull I think.Because on a few occassions I heard women openly comment about me when I was in front of them.One time it was a mother and daughter in a grocery store,another time 2 women I worked with that thought I didn't hear them.....and a couple other times also like at parties,bars or the mall.

One chick in a bar actually asked if she could take a photo one time lol,which I had no problem with tehehe.Unfortunately the side muscle dimples and roundness isn't as defined as it use to be.Chocolate fetish is starting to take its toll.
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Old 11-18-2008, 02:59 PM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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For me, it's more an almost inexpressible sense about him. But I don't think everyone has that ability--otherwise so many women wouldn't be with wife beaters--so I can't really say beyond that. I guess grooming and hygiene. Boring answer, I know.
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Old 11-18-2008, 03:00 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Woman have great periferal vision. That's all I'm going to say.
Guys, I'd recommend listening to opti on such issues! He knows his stuff!

Opti, you sure you've always been a man?!
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Old 11-18-2008, 03:03 PM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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Woman have great periferal vision. That's all I'm going to say.
Some do. Those who end up in abusive relationships didn't see it coming or trust their 'instincts'. In such cases, peripheral vision is useless. You gotta use it.
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Old 11-18-2008, 03:07 PM
 
Location: syracuse ny
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Guys, I'd recommend listening to opti on such issues! He knows his stuff!

Opti, you sure you've always been a man?!

My life suddenly changed when I realized women were far more evolved than men and decided I'd better side with the eventual winners. So I made a peace offering to a few "cougars" and they been telln me stuff.

Like the shoes...they actually made that spike lee commercial for women!


Dudes if you ain't got no pride in your shoes, most women ain't gonna have no pride in you!! They all check out whats going on down there.
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Old 11-18-2008, 03:07 PM
 
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How they look at me..Up and down or chest staring...gets the ice queen
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Old 11-18-2008, 03:10 PM
 
Location: Pelion, South Carolina/orig. from Cape May, NJ
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his teeth/smile and his butt
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