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Old 03-05-2014, 01:50 PM
 
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I've been in situations where I've tried to impress a girl or make her laugh and instead I say something douchy. I'm sure ladies here have had similiar experiences. So ladies what's the worst thing a guy has said to you when trying to impress you? He was trying to be funny but just ended up making you and everyone angry or awkward or whatever?
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Old 03-05-2014, 01:59 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Old 03-05-2014, 02:10 PM
 
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The last man I dated said to me that he "knew" I was taking birth control because of all the men I attract. I think he was trying to insinuate I was pretty and lots of other men would want me? (maybe, I don't know)... but it came across as an insult--like I have loose morals. I just let it slide because people sometimes say silly things/make mistakes, but it was offensive, especially because I am not the type to sleep around. The truth is, I take the pill because for non-birth control reasons (although it's a nice bonus).
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Old 03-05-2014, 02:35 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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The last man I dated said to me that he "knew" I was taking birth control because of all the men I attract. I think he was trying to insinuate I was pretty and lots of other men would want me? (maybe, I don't know)... but it came across as an insult--like I have loose morals. I just let it slide because people sometimes say silly things/make mistakes, but it was offensive, especially because I am not the type to sleep around. The truth is, I take the pill because for non-birth control reasons (although it's a nice bonus).
Was certainly trying to be a compliment. I bet after the date was over he smacked himself in the face, told his buddies and they mocked the crap out of him. :P
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Old 03-05-2014, 02:39 PM
 
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[broken-record] I said something to a woman that I realized in hindsight actually sounded not necessarily creepy, but maybe a little weird (as in side eye weird). Apparently, it wasn't that big of a deal, because we are still on talking terms, but it sure felt a little uncomfortable to me for a while.

I'm very fortunate. I'll say that.

Also, I am noticing my jokes about things happening to me are not going over very well anymore. Instead of laugh's I get an ambulance. One lady wanted to perform CPR on me when I joked about holding my breath too long...
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Old 03-05-2014, 02:45 PM
 
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Old 03-05-2014, 02:46 PM
 
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"WHOA! Where did your titts go?!? You use to have nice ones"

Brother in law to some girl he knew from around the area. She had had a few children since last time he had seen her.....and yes he was trying to impress her with his "Witt"

Seriously.

That's my brother in law
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Old 03-05-2014, 02:50 PM
 
Location: Middle America
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The funniest ineffective thing some random guy's ever said was in a reggae club with some coworkers when I was about 22 years old, "Damn, baby, I like them big ol' hips you got on you!" Apparently, it had worked for him in the past.
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Old 03-05-2014, 03:06 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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The last man I dated said to me that he "knew" I was taking birth control because of all the men I attract. I think he was trying to insinuate I was pretty and lots of other men would want me? (maybe, I don't know)... but it came across as an insult--like I have loose morals. I just let it slide because people sometimes say silly things/make mistakes, but it was offensive, especially because I am not the type to sleep around. The truth is, I take the pill because for non-birth control reasons (although it's a nice bonus).

What a thing to say. But he was spot on with his assumption

you must be hottie!
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Old 03-05-2014, 03:18 PM
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Location: USA
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My brother told his Ex that his hand was a better lover than she was in front of a group of our friends....Awkward!
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