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Old 08-16-2022, 03:58 PM
 
Location: NMB, SC
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yea I could see this being it.the guy has sent me a topless photo which i didnt see a harm in.i figure its flitering,but asking that is just weird and i dont get it.for those who follow my posts the last time i was asked that was by the guy who took me out for a walk on the first hangout and got upset when i told him i didnt want to go to his place to netflix and chill.i dont want to generalize men by 1 bad apple just trying to gauge what they are getting at
He wants a booty call....that's obvious from what you posted.
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Old 08-16-2022, 03:59 PM
 
Location: NMB, SC
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What gets extremely tiresome is the fact that these men say they are looking for a relationship and not a hook up and then go and ask questions like this.

he did ask mainly about what my future foals in life are, about my family my relationship with them and my friends etc but that 1 question just threw me off.its so hard to tell these days what the true intent is
You were spot on. All those other questions were probably leading up to the "main" one....do you cuddle.
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Old 08-16-2022, 04:01 PM
 
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You were spot on. All those other questions were probably leading up to the "main" one....do you cuddle.
That conversation we had was in person after he had asked about the whole cuddling thing.
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Old 08-16-2022, 04:08 PM
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Perhaps to find out if you're affectionate?
Who knows why they asked, but some people are touchy-feely and some aren't. The question wasn't necessarily about sex. I'm guessing most of the other respondents are not cuddlers.
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Old 08-16-2022, 04:13 PM
 
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It is asked because people crave skin to skin contact, the sensory feelings of skin to skin, the comfort and pleasure resulting from cuddling, especially full body cuddling.
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Old 08-16-2022, 04:17 PM
 
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Anything wrong with saying 'yes I do - with people I know really well.'
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Old 08-16-2022, 04:21 PM
 
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It is asked because people crave skin to skin contact, the sensory feelings of skin to skin, the comfort and pleasure resulting from cuddling, especially full body cuddling.
Yeah. Everybody likes that, you're right. So why is it a question? Nope, it's a DTF filter.
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Old 08-16-2022, 05:18 PM
 
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I guess IF you wanted to give him a second chance you could just plain ask him what he's getting at.
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Old 08-16-2022, 05:20 PM
 
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Eeeeuuuwww. Gross.

I might ask my husband that, but if I were single and not in a relationship with the person, I would turn and walk away.
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Old 08-16-2022, 06:52 PM
 
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I like to cuddle. I couldn’t be with a guy that wasn’t into physical affection and not wanting to be physically intimate
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