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Ok, so can you help me out? Did I post this in the correct forum?
How does one know if a Gem guy is truly interested since they are the biggest and best flirts of the Zodiac???
I think this Gem guy may be interested but not really sure how they roll. Here are behaviors he's exhibited towards me recently (also note that I am Black and he is White):
Quickly and sort of shyly put a single conversation heart candy on my desk on Valentine's Day. We were chatting and the moment I got on a phone call he pulled it out and put it down. I was a bit shocked but had a feeling in my gut all day that he was going to do something.
Always looks me up and down to the point where I am uncomfortable. Looks alot at my shoes, lol
Compliments me on my work (notes I write) although I get the feeling he is an elitist and just wants to make me feel good, haha
Was walking toward the train to go home the other night in damn near a flash flood and he rides up in his car calling out my name telling me to get in and that he would take me home. I was telling him no thank you but he kept insisting. I gave in and we had the best convo. I was nervous to get out and walk away because I knew he would be watching...sure nuff, when I turned around he was still waiting there, but waiting for me to get up the steps. Also, I always had a gut feeling he has been waiting to drive me home for a while now but was just waiting for when the time was right.
Seeks me out to talk to me; shares personal info; stares at me intently; watches me when I'm not looking; legs shake when I talk to him; touches me (arms, upper back); gets in my personal space; helps me with work problems and gives me advice.
I know the things I listed above could be general signs of attraction from any guy regardless of sun sign, however, for those of you who are more knowledgeable about/have more experience with Gem guys, can you tell me if anything I listed is unique to their specific sign?
Oh, and sometimes he will be around another girl and shun me a little so this is why I ask because I'm not sure what to think. I am not a flirt and I actually ignore him alot (not on purpose...just isn't someone who was/is really on my radar.) I'm a pretty serious and no-nonsense personality so could this also be the reason he doesn't treat me superficial as the other girls? He doesn't do all that crazy flirting with me but I realise he could just be behaving himself and working his way to get me to be like the other girls? They go crazy for him...I don't but i'd be lying if I said my curiosity isn't growing.
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