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View Poll Results: Do you agree or disagree?
I agree 4 12.50%
I disagree 16 50.00%
It depends/I'm not sure 12 37.50%
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Old 02-04-2014, 10:17 AM
 
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Another one of my threads were I will take a quote and Ill ask the cd audience do they agree or disagree


The quote comes from former hooker and author Rebecca Dakin
Why Do Married Men Cheat? Prostitute-Turned-Author Reveals The Secrets Men Don’t Tell Their Wives | Radar Online
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Old 02-04-2014, 10:23 AM
 
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Well I guess I am still 'wanted' since we still have sex at least once week waaaaaay down from 2 sometimes 3x a day sex on first months. Strangely enough he always wants it Wednesdays lately that's why my line everytime we are done is--


GEICO Hump Day Camel Commercial - Happier than a Camel on Wednesday - YouTube


and the husband makes the camel sound. buwahahaha
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Old 02-04-2014, 10:29 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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That camel sounds like he's channeling Ice Cube when he's hollering out 'HUMP DAAAAY'

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Old 02-04-2014, 10:32 AM
 
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Hump day lol. A lot of reasons why he isn't looking for sex with you. I wonder what the posters will come up with. Looking for it somewhere else is possible, but I think most men would still have it with you while looking . . .
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Old 02-04-2014, 10:47 AM
 
Location: All Over
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i dont think thats necessarily true. i know i go through phases where im either busy or stressed and sex just isn't on my mind. at other times maybe im tired stressed busy at work and i would like to have sex but more just a quicky, knowing that its gonna be some long drawn out thing pleasing my partner as well im like oh ill pass im not up for all that
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Old 02-04-2014, 10:58 AM
 
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Some men have low sex-drive, and those men tend to be the ones who don't ask for sex, they wait for the woman to ask him (but they enjoy sex when they have it). But if she rarely or never asks, he's okay with that, because his drive is low anyway. And no, he's not looking for it elsewhere, and I'm not talking about gay men either. I'm talking about heterosexual but low sex-drive men. Some people call it low testosterone.

If he's high-to-normal sex drive, then yeah he's going to consciously or unconsciously seek it elsewhere, if he's not getting it or wanting it from his woman anymore.

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Old 02-04-2014, 12:07 PM
 
Location: california
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They use that same camel in move theaters to get people to turn off their phones.
As for men finding sex some where else , not this one .
She turned me down often enough I simply finished the job alone. along with every other project around the house.
At least now I am alone ,not nearly as insane as being with some one that doesn't want you at all, except your paycheck.
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Old 02-04-2014, 12:19 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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A man could lose interest in sex for any number of reasons. It could be anything from his having an affair to his blood pressure medication.
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Old 02-04-2014, 12:21 PM
 
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It could also mean he is getting everything he needs from a porn and masturbation habit. Or he has ED and is embarrassed about it. Or he has developed age-related low T.

There are as many reasons for men to not have sex as there are for women.
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Old 02-04-2014, 05:30 PM
 
Location: northwest Illinois
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I lived with a woman for 5 years, whom I just left last july. She thought I was moving to be with another woman, but I knew better than to try to convince her otherwise.
Here it is February and I'm still alone by choice, and that was my choice. Sometimes men need a break for no other reason than to get their independence back again. I've always been a self disciplined person, and the previous 5 years have threatened my space and sanity, so another woman was the last thing I needed but I can't expect her to understand that.
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