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View Poll Results: Do you agree or disagree?
I agree 4 12.50%
I disagree 16 50.00%
It depends/I'm not sure 12 37.50%
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Old 02-04-2014, 05:33 PM
 
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I disagree as he could have an ED or getting his fill from masturbation as well as in my observations even if a guy is asking for sex he still could be seeking it elsewhere. In my opinion male cheating has little to do with his partner sexually fulfilling him and more to do with seeking variety and taking the opportunity when it comes which most guys seem to do.
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Old 02-04-2014, 05:37 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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I disagree as he could have an ED or getting his fill from masturbation as well as in my observations even if a guy is asking for sex he still could be seeking it elsewhere. In my opinion male cheating has little to do with his partner sexually fulfilling him and more to do with seeking variety and taking the opportunity when it comes which most guys seem to do.
Exactly. It could mean he's lost his drive due to age/hormonal change.
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Old 02-04-2014, 05:39 PM
 
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I lived with a woman for 5 years, whom I just left last july. She thought I was moving to be with another woman, but I knew better than to try to convince her otherwise.
Here it is February and I'm still alone by choice, and that was my choice. Sometimes men need a break for no other reason than to get their independence back again. I've always been a self disciplined person, and the previous 5 years have threatened my space and sanity, so another woman was the last thing I needed but I can't expect her to understand that.
"It's not you, it's me…"
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Old 02-04-2014, 06:28 PM
 
Location: northwest Illinois
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"It's not you, it's me…"
Exactly. It was nothing she did wrong, and yes I miss her but nonetheless, I broke her heart and hate myself for that. I just didn't see another way.
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Old 02-04-2014, 07:57 PM
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Another one of my threads were I will take a quote and Ill ask the cd audience do they agree or disagree


The quote comes from former hooker and author Rebecca Dakin
Why Do Married Men Cheat? Prostitute-Turned-Author Reveals The Secrets Men Don’t Tell Their Wives | Radar Online

I think it is incorrect to think that he's seeking it elsewhere.Every guy/man is different, their nature/personlaities,their thinking and approaches are different in many ways hence I don't think it can be generalized that way.
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Old 02-05-2014, 12:31 AM
 
Location: MN
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A lot of people don't realize this, but stress and depression are libido killers for men. A lot of people are often surprised to learn how depression affects men. This economy has been really rough for a lot of men and I've talked to a lot of women whose husbands withdrew and became depressed, and sex was the last thing on their minds.
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Old 02-05-2014, 05:33 AM
 
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The context of what she is talking about is more long term than it is short term. For example it's not

"Well we haven't had sex in 3 days, he's banging someone else"

It's more like

"We haven't had sex in 8 months, and he doesn't seem interested at all"


The biggest indication of cheating to me is a random almost 180 degree change in the frequency of sex.
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