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Wow nice to see some like it. Nope, I'm not a psycho murderer but just someone open to anyone that wants to be my friend. I don't really ask to much for someone to be my friend; just be kind and care about getting to know me better and that's all.
Wow nice to see some like it. Nope, I'm not a psycho murderer but just someone open to anyone that wants to be my friend. I don't really ask to much for someone to be my friend; just be kind and care about getting to know me better and that's all.
Well it is not a big deal just as long as you not to clingy and have you own hobbies.
I have to cut friends out of my life that were holding me back and where a cancer. That being said I do not have many friends . It is hard to make friends once you get older but i am trying.
I don't care if a woman has only a couple of fans. But if she is constantly changing friends, that's a big red flag for me. I went out with a girl somewhat recently who was constantly not speaking to various friends for seemingly trivial reasons. Seemed very immature to me.
I don't care if a woman has only a couple of fans. But if she is constantly changing friends, that's a big red flag for me. I went out with a girl somewhat recently who was constantly not speaking to various friends for seemingly trivial reasons. Seemed very immature to me.
It's really them that stopped talking to me. If I get lucky, I get a ''once in a blue moon'' call on my cell but will probably have to wait a year or so for this to even happen or it might not.
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Originally Posted by Laychick
I rejected a guy last month (he wasn't my type and didn't hold my same values either; I'm only seeking my male counterpart) and he thought I'm a woman that has some friends, has been in several relationships but is now single and go out sometimes; he thought I was the typical woman and what is to be expected. I lied about it.
The truth is I hardly ever get invited to parties, much less movies by friends. I hardly ever have friends and I'm not really an introverted individual as many think. I always had problem making friends and when I do, they either aren't interest in continue hanging out with me or might one day invite me, only to cancel it in the following days; something always happen. Basically, I'm really a loner with only very few occasional friends and only hang out with my family sometimes. I get the feeling that maybe I might be lacking some social skills (I never had actually friends as a kid and teen either, just few I would sometimes hang out with out of luck). Though, getting a bf wouldn't be a problem if I weren't too selective; I just don't want any man, not less former womanizers with double standards.
This is what I've been wondering: if a man meets a woman in her mid-late 20's that hardly ever has any friends and other than trying to finish her major, she's stuck at home in her spare time what would he really think of her? Some people think I got out once a week but actually the last time I've gone to a party has been about 2-3 years ago and that's only out of luck. Overall, having very few friends that I wouldn't even called friends since I don't even hang out with them either was never my choice. Not sure if some men might mind this and find it kind of weird. Or do men generally don't care about this??
This screams red flag. I'm very introverted myself but I do manage to have a pretty active social life. A lack of friends is going to have me thinking she is going to be very dependent on me for social interaction.
I rejected a guy last month (he wasn't my type and didn't hold my same values either; I'm only seeking my male counterpart) and he thought I'm a woman that has some friends, has been in several relationships but is now single and go out sometimes; he thought I was the typical woman and what is to be expected. I lied about it.
Not sure if some men might mind this and find it kind of weird. Or do men generally don't care about this??
Depends. One thing I will say...
The LESS MALE FRIENDS you have.....THE BETTER.
Can't tell you how many single woman I meet on a weekly basis that have all kinds of "platonic" male friends in their lives.
Guys like myself see this is a HUGE TURNOFF.
No real man wants to compete. Remember that ladies.
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