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I have been dating this guy for like a month now. It's such a wierd relationship...we're not officially dating or anything but I see him probably once a week. He will text me when he's free to hangout but besides that...I hear nothing from him. No, how was your day? nothing!
When we are together he is very affectionate and he whispers all these sweet nothings to me like "I'm his dream girl," and he "really likes me" but then I can go an entire week without hearing from him. Does this make any sense to you?
I asked him about this and he said he wants to give me space...but I told him I'm always questioning his intentions, if he truly liked me, why am I always so unsure of where I stand. No we haven't slept together or anything. Do you think I'm expecting too much to soon are am I justified in my feelings?
this is called one-itis, focusing too much on one person.
"we're not officially dating or anything", "we haven't slept together or anything", but "he whispers all these sweet nothings to me".... he wants to bang you, is keeping his options open, and is not-exclusive with you.
Before you conclude anything, first you must tell him that you don't need space for yourself and want to talk to him more. You have to be clear and absolute about this so there is no misinterpretation on his part. He may truly think that you need space.
this is called one-itis, focusing too much on one person.
"we're not officially dating or anything", "we haven't slept together or anything", but "he whispers all these sweet nothings to me".... he wants to bang you, is keeping his options open, and is not-exclusive with you.
Well...he did just break up with his ex a month ago...so this could be true
Well...he did just break up with his ex a month ago...so this could be true
oh, this changes my opinion a bit: then he is not emotionally available, and you're maybe a rebound. accept it for what it is and don't ask for more unless you want to risk some heartache. if he is not emotionally available, any emotional hurt you experience will likely have very little impact on him. good luck
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