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Nope. But at the same time some people can BECOME more attractive when you get to know them and see the bigger picture and not just a first glance impression.
I think you might give it a couple weeks. Things can change (and this is from a guy). I've been very attracted to women who aren't very pretty but they had other qualities - especially confidence - that made me want to be with them.
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Originally Posted by bebe182
I've dated guys that I wasn't initially attracted to, but the attraction grew over time. I would give this guy a chance, if you still aren't in the least bit attracted to him after a couple of dates then I wouldn't go out with him again.
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Originally Posted by Ceece
Nope. But at the same time some people can BECOME more attractive when you get to know them and see the bigger picture and not just a first glance impression.
Agree with everyone here.
For me, typically attraction grows over time.
The only exception was my husband...it was instant chemistry when I laid eyes on him...however that could have all died when he opened his mouth. Fortunately he was the whole package.
Sometimes the whole package doesn't come with pretty wrapping though and you get a nice surprise when you open it up!
I dated someone I wasn't attracted to physically for 3 years.
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