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Old 06-17-2013, 03:44 PM
 
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Would you date a woman who cocktails in a strip club? Cocktails/waitressing only, no stripping. Even if she held a professional day job, has a college education and wanted to do this for supplemental income? Reasons why you would/would not.

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Old 06-17-2013, 03:48 PM
 
Location: Houston, TX
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Sure, why not. She is a waitress, not a stripper.
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Old 06-17-2013, 03:50 PM
 
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1. 95% of girls who cocktail actually strip, did strip, or will become strippers. The money is far too tempting not to, for so so many.

2. The other 5%, eh, may not be a big deal. I've found tons of girls say cocktail, but when you get to know them better they will admit that they are actually strippers.

3. If they legit cocktail and they don't go to work and get wasted (like the majority of cocktails do) and then also go after work to the "after parties" aka hot tub parties where they are probably slamming all the rich dudes there..



If they don't fit these categories and you know this for 100% fact, then it's not a big deal. If you are suspicious, you have a reason to be. If you get to know her better, have her come stay with you after work sometimes, call you when she gets home occasionally, etc. If she is doing what she's doing, I'd say there's a very good chance something doesn't add up.


Again, she could be a very legit girl, but I'd need some pretty solid proof backing up what she is saying. Most girls in most things you can trust, but that whole industry is just sketchy.
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Old 06-17-2013, 03:50 PM
 
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Sure, why not. She is a waitress, not a stripper.
I'm with Oildog on this ^.
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Old 06-17-2013, 03:55 PM
 
Location: Houston, Tx
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If she was just a bartender or serving drinks maybe, if she's a stripper hell no.
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Old 06-17-2013, 04:23 PM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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Would you date a woman who cocktails in a strip club? Cocktails/waitressing only, no stripping. Even if she held a professional day job, has a college education and wanted to do this for supplemental income? Reasons why you would/would not.

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I have no problem with it. Money is tight these days, gotta make that paper anyway you can.
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Old 06-17-2013, 04:30 PM
 
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I have no problem with it. Money is tight these days, gotta make that paper anyway you can.
Hell, if it was the only job I could get in a tight job market I would be there in a second flat. Better than living on the Dol.
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Old 06-17-2013, 04:39 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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She's a waitress earning a living. Would not see an issue with this. In a busy place they can do very well money wise.
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Old 06-17-2013, 05:06 PM
 
Location: La lune et les étoiles
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at this thread.

Gotta laugh at the guys chasing after strippers and cocktail waitresses who then turn around and complain about not being able to find "good girls" with high moral standards who want to settle down.
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Old 06-17-2013, 05:19 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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I would! but I'm not buying the waitress thing. I know she be doing private dances on the side; they all do, lol
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