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Old 07-16-2010, 03:53 PM
 
Location: Maryland's 6th District.
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...was in a monogamous relationship with a guy since late 2006, and has lived with him ever since-even though they broke up around six months ago and are no longer in a relationship, but still live together....and she is moving out-of-state with this same ex-boyfriend...even though they are not in a relationship...but are going to sign a year lease on an apartment together?

So, would you be interested in a woman in this situation? Even if she may be open to continuing the relationship long-distance (visiting once a month or so)?
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Old 07-16-2010, 04:00 PM
 
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I'm not a guy, but Are You Kidding Me?!!!
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Old 07-16-2010, 04:07 PM
 
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I'm not a guy, but Are You Kidding Me?!!!
I am a guy and.........WTH are you f*****g kidding me?!!!!
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Old 07-16-2010, 04:12 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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I confess.

Not only would I say no, I'd say f*&* no.
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Old 07-16-2010, 04:25 PM
 
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It doesn't sound like a girl who is interested in you AT ALL. Specially if she is still attached to her ex.
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Old 07-16-2010, 04:25 PM
 
Location: East Valley, AZ
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Could you maybe include more details in your original post? I don't think we follow...

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Old 07-16-2010, 04:28 PM
 
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...was in a monogamous relationship with a guy since late 2006, and has lived with him ever since-even though they broke up around six months ago and are no longer in a relationship, but still live together....and she is moving out-of-state with this same ex-boyfriend...even though they are not in a relationship...but are going to sign a year lease on an apartment together?

So, would you be interested in a woman in this situation? Even if she may be open to continuing the relationship long-distance (visiting once a month or so)?

I'd read between the lines on this. When the economy was good they were monogamous. Now that they're out of money she's on the market? When she burns through the next guy , she'll rinse and repeat. Either that or they've both agreed to pimp her out and find a sucker.
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Old 07-16-2010, 04:32 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Sure! If you're interested in polyandry!
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Old 07-16-2010, 04:47 PM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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...was in a monogamous relationship with a guy since late 2006, and has lived with him ever since-even though they broke up around six months ago and are no longer in a relationship, but still live together....and she is moving out-of-state with this same ex-boyfriend...even though they are not in a relationship...but are going to sign a year lease on an apartment together?

So, would you be interested in a woman in this situation? Even if she may be open to continuing the relationship long-distance (visiting once a month or so)?
You could move with them, long distance relationship problem solved.

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Old 07-16-2010, 05:33 PM
 
Location: Maryland's 6th District.
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Okay, I am not the one dating this girl...I am the ex-bf that she is living with. She has recently been hanging out with a co-worker of hers who supposedly knows about our situation. I just can't think of why a guy would be interested in a woman in this particular situation. The guy is weird. He supposedly lived in the woods (in his parents cabin) for four-years, for some reason refuses to own a telephone (out-side of work, he gets ahold of her through IM on Gmail), recently moved into town, and does not know many people around here.

I don't think that a normal guy would be interested in a woman in her situation, and I am kind of concerned.

As for her side, she initially just hung out with him as a friend, but things 'unexpectedly turned'.

And....the reason why we continue to live together is because we are both moving to continue with college full-time, and working full-time. Despite the 'ex' thing, we actually get along really well and are pretty much best friends.
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