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I think you'll have fun! Lots of "older" singles are out and about. And enough, that people don't think you are a freak without a marriage and kids. But you might want to stay out of the further family oriented suburbs. For obvious reasons! [The further you go from SF and Oakland, the more middle america it gets. And most of the south bay and peninsula are pretty family oriented. More urban = more hip older singles.]
I see cute 45+ men all the time. They see me and think "Are you even old enough to get in the bar?" [Not kidding, this happens when I go to a place where the crowd is ~40+]
Completely agree with Jade on this one. It seems almost a sort of competition in this city who can go oldest without settling down, hehe.
Completely agree with Jade on this one. It seems almost a sort of competition in this city who can go oldest without settling down, hehe.
Heheh! I know. I know a woman who divorced in her late 20s and no kids. She's about 55, a pretty silver haired lady. She has fun dating all the younger men. From late 30s to 40s.
Heheh! I know. I know a woman who divorced in her late 20s and no kids. She's about 55, a pretty silver haired lady. She has fun dating all the younger men. From late 30s to 40s.
Aww only late 30s to 40s. But yeah 55....still younger than my mom though!
Well you are in your mid thirties right? I would be surprised if she was older than your mom, your mom would have to have had you pretty early. I'm 21 so...yeah.
Well you are in your mid thirties right? I would be surprised if she was older than your mom, your mom would have to have had you pretty early. I'm 21 so...yeah.
My mom was a bit late for her time. She had me at 29 (and my sister at 33). My parents were always among the oldest when I was growing up. Even among my friends now, it is pretty weird. Their parents are quite a bit younger than mine.
My paternal grandma had my aunt at 39! Considering my aunt is 54 now, it is crazy!
No, she's in her sixties now, she had me in her forties. It was a risky procedure; the doctor and my mom opted for cesarean a la Macbeth. She went under and I came out and it was actually much less painful than a regular birth.
No, she's in her sixties now, she had me in her forties. It was a risky procedure; the doctor and my mom opted for cesarean a la Macbeth. She went under and I came out and it was actually much less painful than a regular birth.
My mom did c-sections too....for other reasons. She had a miscarriage and fibroids before me. I was a fluke, a super preemie, born 3 months early! I turned out just fine. When I meet people who are worried about preemies, I tell them they have hope for a positive outcome.
Nice Jade! You are a very special fluke indeed. And three months early just wouldn't fly with a Chinese parent. The timing of the birth is ultra, super, mega, hella important, for reasons of astrological felicity. A few days too early and I would have been a goat! Instead I was born on the 9th of January, last month of the Chinese year, and thus became a horse.
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I think you'll have fun! Lots of "older" singles are out and about. And enough, that people don't think you are a freak without a marriage and kids. But you might want to stay out of the further family oriented suburbs. For obvious reasons! [The further you go from SF and Oakland, the more middle america it gets. And most of the south bay and peninsula are pretty family oriented. More urban = more hip older singles.]
[Not kidding, this happens when I go to a place where the crowd is ~40+]
