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Old 11-28-2012, 10:33 AM
 
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I hope you're right, but honestly I don't think I'll be that lucky.
No you won't. Women are almost universally looking for relationships, with the exception of rare times in their lives. And then they sure as hell aren't going online to find it. They bang a guy they already know and trust.

Older women date younger men to 1) even the score with guys who date wayyy younger 2) to make themselves feel younger.

And they regret it nearly every time as younger guy dumps them and moves on later.

If he had a lot of options, the 24 yr old would have dated his own age. And if he wanted kids...he woulda had his own.
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Old 11-28-2012, 10:44 AM
 
Location: Houston, Tx
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No you won't. Women are almost universally looking for relationships, with the exception of rare times in their lives. And then they sure as hell aren't going online to find it. They bang a guy they already know and trust.

Older women date younger men to 1) even the score with guys who date wayyy younger 2) to make themselves feel younger.

And they regret it nearly every time as younger guy dumps them and moves on later.

If he had a lot of options, the 24 yr old would have dated his own age. And if he wanted kids...he woulda had his own.
Says who?
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Old 11-28-2012, 10:45 AM
 
Location: Houston, Tx
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She is going to take you home and bend you into so many pretzel formations, they will have to rewrite the Kama Sutra.

Were do I sign up?
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Old 11-28-2012, 11:38 AM
 
Location: Ohio
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Hi all,

I'm 24, and I'm on OKCupid, which is a dating site. I starting talking to a woman on there who is 40 years old. She has listed she is only looking for guys between the ages of 33-50.

Knowing both our ages, im guessing she isn't looking for a relationship, so is she going to want to hook up?
Probably so. She probably liked how you looked in your photos and wanted to see more. She's not looking for a relationship since her profile said that she was looking for guys between the ages of 33 - 40 (unless she made a mistake). When you meet up just ask her about that. Go out, have fun and enjoy yourself.
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Old 11-28-2012, 01:13 PM
 
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Are YOU looking for "a relationship" Badger55?
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Old 11-28-2012, 01:26 PM
 
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Why do the inept keep becoming more inept?
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Old 11-28-2012, 02:16 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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If she listed she was only looking for 33-50, why did you contact her? Has she actually agreed to meet you? Most women in that age range avoid 20-somethings, knowing 90% of them are only after one thing. In fact, they complain on forums about being contacted by the junior league.
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Old 11-28-2012, 02:17 PM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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Why do the inept keep becoming more inept?
Law of geometric descending ineptitude. I read about it in this...book...one time....a long time ago.....yeah.
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Old 11-28-2012, 02:27 PM
 
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How has your communication been? Everyday conversation or flirty with a lot of innuendo? Yes, she could just be interested in a hookup with you, but there's also a chance she saw something in your profile that caught her interest-common interests, you can actually string together an intelligent sentence without using "text speak", etc and she decided "what the h***, yeah, he's a young but there's something appealing about him so I'll give it a chance. After all, it's just one date. Not like I have to marry the guy." Novel thought, I know.
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Old 11-28-2012, 02:28 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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I hope you're right, but honestly I don't think I'll be that lucky.

Me neither
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