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Old 10-05-2012, 02:03 PM
 
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I was having this discussion with someone and they think it's only wrong to sleep with a married man. A person who is in a relationship is still technically single, so there's nothing wrong with it.
That's hypocritical. If you thought it made such a big difference then you wouldn't have sex before marriage in the first place, never mind with someone else's boyfriend.

Were you wearing toilet paper inside your pants when you hooked with him? What did he think when you took your pants off and all the toilet paper fell out?

 
Old 10-05-2012, 02:15 PM
 
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What is all this "tramp" stuff about ? The girl in this situation owes nothing to the guy's girlfriend. The guy would be at fault.

I doubt a guy would be called a tramp if he slept with a girl that had a boyfriend. This is the way the world works. People want to sleep with other people. If people in relationships don't want to sleep with anyone but their s/o, they won't. If they do, they will. And if they do, the people they choose to sleep with have done nothing wrong.
 
Old 10-05-2012, 02:19 PM
 
Location: On the corner of Grey Street
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I think it's definitely a crappy thing to do...but the ultimate blame lies with the guy who made a promise to be honest to his girlfriend, and broke it. If you're not married then it's really easy - just break up with the person then you can do whatever you want. But to promise fidelity and then cheat is just wrong.
 
Old 10-05-2012, 02:28 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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That's hypocritical. If you thought it made such a big difference then you wouldn't have sex before marriage in the first place, never mind with someone else's boyfriend.

Were you wearing toilet paper inside your pants when you hooked with him? What did he think when you took your pants off and all the toilet paper fell out?
I am not sleeping with anyone's boyfriend. I'm just getting people's opinion on this subject.
 
Old 10-05-2012, 02:30 PM
 
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What is all this "tramp" stuff about ? The girl in this situation owes nothing to the guy's girlfriend. The guy would be at fault.

I doubt a guy would be called a tramp if he slept with a girl that had a boyfriend. This is the way the world works. People want to sleep with other people. If people in relationships don't want to sleep with anyone but their s/o, they won't. If they do, they will. And if they do, the people they choose to sleep with have done nothing wrong.
Does that apply to married people too?
 
Old 10-05-2012, 02:36 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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are you still considered a homewrecker if you knowingly sleep with a guy who has a girlfriend?

Technically, the guy is still single if he's not married so he's fair game...right?

Good grief, you really have to ask this question? Seriously, you would do this to some other woman?

So, nobody ever taught you the Golden Rule?
 
Old 10-05-2012, 02:41 PM
 
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Oh sure.....why not sleep with someone else's boyfriend?! Just be sure to tell your friend to remember this the next time she has a boyfriend herself. I'm sure she wouldn't mind lending him out, since she's currently borrowing someone else's. She might want to borrow some decent morals while she's at it.

What goes around, comes around!!

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Old 10-05-2012, 03:15 PM
 
Location: Sunny Bay Area, CA
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Of course it's wrong. I would blame both the girl going after the guy while knowing he's in a relationship and the guy cheating on his girlfriend. People like that deserve each other, as neither have morals and obviously already have shown they're cheaters and can't be trusted.

And yeah...what goes around comes around!
 
Old 10-05-2012, 03:21 PM
 
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*shrug* apparently a bunch of people on this site it's perfectly fine to screw other people so long as they aren't married So by all means, the guy isn't married, so technically he's still "single", so screw away.
 
Old 10-05-2012, 03:29 PM
 
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So if this was your boyfriend, you'd be okay with him sleeping with someone else since he's still technically single?
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