So I've been dating this girl... (calling, daughter, partner, problems)
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Reward her when she behaves herself and does stuff for you, not automatically.
Good grief, why do you have this obsession with "rewarding" people. The Pavlovian principle was one thing but ...
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Originally Posted by Ursofa_king
I'm speaking from experience. I always paid and held open car/building doors for an ex. How did she repay me? No sex, vacations had to be shared with friends (no 1 on 1, and for the one time we were alone, she was a cold fish, hid it from her parents). I took the lead with all kinds of romantic ideas and outings and she never reciprocated.
The next relationship I learned my lesson, created distance and challenge and got much better results. The woman bought me stuff, cooked for me , it was a refreshing change.
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Originally Posted by boodhabunny
Where is that woman now? What happened?
Enquiring minds need to know! Guess neither scenario worked out very well.
As I said earlier, women will chase highly desirable men. That includes those that say they will never chase a man. These days, women don't respond to chivalry, despite what they say. If you sense a woman is not reciprocating and is playing hard to get, back off. If she's truly interested, she won't lose you and she will chase. I've seen it happen too many times.
As I said earlier, women will chase highly desirable men. That includes those that say they will never chase a man. These days, women don't respond to chivalry, despite what they say. If you sense a woman is not reciprocating and is playing hard to get, back off. If she's truly interested, she won't lose you and she will chase. I've seen it happen too many times.
So wrong... depends if the woman has self- respect or not... yes some women think they are not complete without a man on their arm... GEEZ... many women know that "game" you suggest... just keep playing games and wonder... "what am I doing wrong??"...
So wrong... depends if the woman has self- respect or not... yes some women think they are not complete without a man on their arm... GEEZ... many women know that "game" you suggest... just keep playing games and wonder... "what am I doing wrong??"...
You say I'm wrong, but actions speak louder than words. Women do chase in those situations. Just because you don't want to hear the truth, doesn't mean what I said is false. Guys that understand female psychology do this and it works. Sorry, but I'm 100% correct.
You say I'm wrong, but actions speak louder than words. Women do chase in those situations. Just because you don't want to hear the truth, doesn't mean what I said is false. Guys that understand female psychology do this and it works. Sorry, but I'm 100% correct.
It all depends...on your intentions.
If you're trying to get laid, it can work like a charm-- but if you want a legit relationship, it's best to skip the reverse psychodrama and mind games as much as possible.
They'll always be there to some extent, I mean we're dealing with men & women here, it's inevitable. But the more games played, the less real the two players become.
As I said earlier, women will chase highly desirable men. That includes those that say they will never chase a man. These days, women don't respond to chivalry, despite what they say. If you sense a woman is not reciprocating and is playing hard to get, back off. If she's truly interested, she won't lose you and she will chase. I've seen it happen too many times.
Wow, that's game playing to the max. I don't care what you think and if you believe you're 100% correct- I'm a woman and I know what I want, what I will do and what I won't. I really do appreciate chivalry in a man and I won't take those acts for granted. I won't chase a "highly desirable" man- if I sense that a man I like isn't into me, I will let it be and move on. Doing otherwise is having no self-respect. Maybe it's the type of women you meet, but we're not all that way.
What do you mean by return the favor? You mean also open doors, pull out his chair, get his coat, etc? I'm not sure what you mean.
show him she's interested
do nice things for him in her own way
call him every once in a while
show interest in seeing him again
make him feel comfortable
If I need to tell you specifics, sorry, it's not my job to teach women how to be a good girlfriend.
show him she's interested
do nice things for him in her own way
call him every once in a while
show interest in seeing him again
make him feel comfortable
If I need to tell you specifics, sorry, it's not my job to teach women how to be a good girlfriend.
That's exactly what I meant by "appreciate".
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Guess neither scenario worked out very well.
Geez....
I'm not sure what you mean.
