Suz - Hi, we were in NC few months ago and narrowed it down to several towns that we liked. We're going to visit there again next week and make a final decision where we want to live.
Originally, like you said, Wake Forest was thought to be a nice place to live, but decided it's not a place for us due to overcrowded area. We haven't been to three towns yet: Youngsville, Rolesville, and Clayton. That's why we need to check these out and see what the places are like before we buy a home.
I have a 3rd grader and it's important for me to attend a good school, too. We're looking for a brand-new house, so hopefully they have plenty for us to check it out.
Good Luck with your move!