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Originally Posted by Topaz
No one said it was cute but it is completely normal. Children have all sorts of feelings, including angry and violent ones. The goal of parenting is to teach them socially acceptable ways to manage and control those feelings.
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I disagree that it's normal. A 5 year old that threatens to dismember his mother? That's the age they start school and by that age, they should already know what's acceptable and what isn't or they most definitely are not ready for school. Wait till he tells the kids at school or the teacher that.
My kids at age 5 would not have said anything close to that, like I said verbal and physical abuse on other family members including pets is not tolerated, not accepted, not seen as completely normal in my home.
Maybe those who believe in lax discipline would have to view this as completely normal behavior from a 5 year old but then there will be more they will likely have to accept as completely normal behavior later down the road.
To me it's a sign of pretty much zero respect, maybe completely normal in a child that does not love nor respect the parent and knows he has no limits. The fact that he behaves fine much of the time only tells me that he's not mentally ill or anything like that which could change the picture, he's a normal kid with an unsual disrespect for the parent and already resorts to abusive language and very violent threats against his own mother.