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Old 04-20-2011, 09:26 AM
 
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Originally Posted by LeavingMassachusetts View Post
I cannot fathom how a parent can make a unilateral decision to let a child be even stared at wrong every time they meet someone because of some fantasy land they have made up in their head. It seriously angers me. With all the uproar of bullying, how do you make this conscious choice??
Beautifully said. (As were several along this line!)

All of the "You are beautiful just the way you are" in the world does not matter (or work) when your child looks at you in tears and says, "Mommy, I just want to be like everybody else."

At that point you move Heaven and Earth to insure that your child gets the chance to look like everybody else. To look like his friends. Sometimes fitting in is the most precious gift a child can be given.
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