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Old 05-11-2012, 04:40 PM
 
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I have always been a go getter type person. Karma , nah , if you keep screwing people over , one of them will get you , MOST LIKELY. But certainly no guarantee. If you want to see someone ' get what's coming to them' you have to do it yourself or wait until they screw someone else who takes revenge. I don't believe in revenge because it can backfire. So , tell me , fate / karma of a rotten person or just free will of someone else taking vengance?
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Old 05-11-2012, 05:09 PM
 
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Respect yourself by not acting out on your emotions and let it go. You know the saying, that which does not kill you makes you stronger?

I leave justice for fate to figure out, but for now you have to see, plan, and act on a future that exists after you recover from this. If you don't allow yourself to heal and recover, you only hurt yourself more. Welcome to the jilted hearts club.

Good Luck.
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Old 05-11-2012, 05:24 PM
 
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I have always been a go getter type person. Karma , nah , if you keep screwing people over , one of them will get you , MOST LIKELY. But certainly no guarantee. If you want to see someone ' get what's coming to them' you have to do it yourself or wait until they screw someone else who takes revenge. I don't believe in revenge because it can backfire. So , tell me , fate / karma of a rotten person or just free will of someone else taking vengance?
Karma has nothing to do with carrying out revenge or retaliation for what someone has done to you. When someone has done you wrong, instead of getting EVEN, you move on and leave it to "the universe" to take care of it.

In some cases what goes around will come back around, often times it shows up in other ways seemly unrelated to the original bad deed or action(s). Sometimes it happens right away, sometimes it takes along time, sometimes it doesn't happen at all. You just have to move on with your life and not dwell on it or anger/resentment will consume you.
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Old 05-11-2012, 06:09 PM
 
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Respect yourself by not acting out on your emotions and let it go. You know the saying, that which does not kill you makes you stronger?

I leave justice for fate to figure out, but for now you have to see, plan, and act on a future that exists after you recover from this. If you don't allow yourself to heal and recover, you only hurt yourself more. Welcome to the jilted hearts club.

Good Luck.
I know better than togive any1 satisfaction on seeing me act out. I appreciate your advice , probably do need a rebound guy. (As suggested on other thread) thank you again
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Old 05-11-2012, 06:32 PM
 
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I have always been a go getter type person. Karma , nah , if you keep screwing people over , one of them will get you , MOST LIKELY. But certainly no guarantee. If you want to see someone ' get what's coming to them' you have to do it yourself or wait until they screw someone else who takes revenge. I don't believe in revenge because it can backfire. So , tell me , fate / karma of a rotten person or just free will of someone else taking vengance?

I don't understand what you are asking.
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Old 05-11-2012, 07:36 PM
 
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I know better than togive any1 satisfaction on seeing me act out. I appreciate your advice , probably do need a rebound guy. (As suggested on other thread) thank you again
A rebound guy is not what I siuggested, finding another guy to give you emotional release, yes. To be crass, you need to get multiple pops to vent and unload. How achieve that is your only obstacle. It will take 6-8 mos to get it out if your system, but thats thr goal: to get those emotionally charged juices and hormones out your system.

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Old 05-11-2012, 07:51 PM
 
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A rebound guy is not what I siuggested, finding another guy to give you emotional release, yes. To be crass, you need to get multiple pops to vent and unload. How achieve that is your only obstacle. It will take 6-8 mos to get it out if your system, but thats thr goal: to get those emotionally charged juives out your system.
lol
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Old 05-11-2012, 07:54 PM
 
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I don't understand what you are asking.
Kaffegirl stated my concern in her post "sometimes nothing at all happens"
Just wanting to know who believes what comes around goes around?
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Old 05-11-2012, 07:55 PM
 
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So , tell me , fate / karma of a rotten person or just free will of someone else taking vengance?

Hmmm. I think it is possible you might've missed something in your interpretation of the concept of karma. It is not related to someone taking vengeance on another. It is more about one's own actions and their consequences. The actions don't have to be bad, nor do the consequences.

Have you considered meditation?
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Old 05-11-2012, 08:23 PM
 
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