People who are weird about money

[ClaraC]

Originally Posted by upsadaisy

do you do checks on everyone you date?!

this is really dumb. I'm sorry but no.

I would do a background check on him before I went to Paris with him, though.

My guess is he's married. This is not uncommon behavior for a married man who finds a pretty younger woman who's up for adventure and has no strings attached.

I certainly don't think he's into anything nefarious like trafficking or whatever, but I think you should find out whether he's married.

[Ms. Tarabotti]

Originally Posted by AJ1957

Anyone who's familiar with the OP's posting hx knows she is NOT a mooch/golddigger/deadbeat.

Seriously, her history paints a very different picture. She's got...issues galore but being a mooch isn't one of them based upon data provided.

I seem to be the only one skeptical of the "trip to Paris"; I think it's a lure the guy is holding out to keep her willing and swoony. It'll never happen. This fella can see how naive this gal is and is saying whatever to get whatever.

You may know her like that but does Chloe (whom I gather is a new friend)?

Do they know each other well enough to know that the other is not a mooch?

[oh-eve]

Originally Posted by AJ1957

Guy could be a trafficker; IF an international trip does happen it'll likely end in a Kuwait brothel for the OP.

Originally Posted by LLCNYC

Agree.

I just can't imagine a guy saying "let's jet off to Paris! " while dropping her off at the motel. Something is off.

Originally Posted by LLCNYC

Lol. Lots of assumptions there...

People are concerned. Rightfully so.

Huh? You are the guys ASSUMING that something just HAS to go wrong.


Yes, she should be concerned. But in a healthy way - have your ducks in a row, don't be stupid, watch out for yourself, use common sense.