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Old 07-17-2016, 10:31 AM
 
Location: Indianapolis, Indiana
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I used to buy my friends gifts all the times. I start to learn that it was not a good way to get respect or friendship. They stopped coming around me when I stop buying gifts for them.
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Old 09-06-2016, 07:22 AM
 
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i used to buy my friends gifts all the times. I start to learn that it was not a good way to get respect or friendship. They stopped coming around me when i stop buying gifts for them.
op needs to read your post over and over and over.
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Old 09-06-2016, 07:28 AM
 
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Thank u, she did tell me she is pregnant and she no longer wants me to think the world revolve around me. I gave her a gucci diaper bag and she told me that she was taking it but that i shouldnt be buying her friendship, But i think it goes beyond that.When i found out she was pregnant i bought her a $350 edible arrangement for her and her husband. And i also gave her husband a "new dad" gift . She talked to me the whole day that day as always but we are back to the cold shoulder. She made me realize that she doesnt want my friendship, but i do feel sorry for her bcus she just pushed a wonderful friend out of her life. I still feel very hurt bcus i was always there when she needed me and when i needed her to listen and just give me a hug she told me no... I really do wish her the best bcus even thou she is a pretty <snip>bad friend, shes a great person. Thanks for your post!
what's her being pregnant got to do with her being an a hole.
She didn't "push a wonderful friend out of her life"...she pushed an easy mark money bags out of her life. But don't worry, it won't be for long...cause hanging out with someone who feels the need to buy your attention can probably be quite lucrative.
Maybe instead of wondering why she's so mean to you, you should spend that time figuring out why your self esteem is so low that you feel the necessity to buy gifts to bolster it up.
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Old 04-30-2018, 09:00 AM
 
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You cannot buy friends, which is what you are trying to do. So stop already.

Find other people to be friends with.

It sounds like, from your last sentences, that you've finally realized that she isn't a good friend to you.
maybe...but not enough to stop her buying expensive gifts for this so called "friend".
now that this "friend" is pregnant, I'm sure she'll be there to be used again both physically and financially...
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Old 04-30-2018, 12:30 PM
 
Location: on the wind
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For pity's sake let's hope this friend isn't STILL pregnant!!

A Gucci diaper bag? What a waste (no, not in that way)!
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Old 05-01-2018, 07:09 AM
 
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Old thread.

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It's all good....same thoughts......
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