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Old 08-23-2015, 12:31 PM
 
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Yes, I know I asked this same question about going to a friends house a few weeks ago, and you were all very helpful. However, my cousin is having a dinner tonight for his grandmother's birthday, and he told me 5pm. 5pm is an odd time because you don't really have time to do anything before. I've been home all day today, so I've been bored out of my mind and can't wait until it's time to go. So since my cousin said 5pm, what is the earliest possible time I can arrive without it being rude or intrusive? Like 4:45? 4:50? I know you'll all have different opinions, but I would like to hear what you think. If it helps, there will be about 10 people at this party.
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Old 08-23-2015, 12:58 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Yes, I know I asked this same question about going to a friends house a few weeks ago, and you were all very helpful. However, my cousin is having a dinner tonight for his grandmother's birthday, and he told me 5pm. 5pm is an odd time because you don't really have time to do anything before. I've been home all day today, so I've been bored out of my mind and can't wait until it's time to go. So since my cousin said 5pm, what is the earliest possible time I can arrive without it being rude or intrusive? Like 4:45? 4:50? I know you'll all have different opinions, but I would like to hear what you think. If it helps, there will be about 10 people at this party.
Unless you are helping cook or set up, 5 pm.
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Old 08-23-2015, 01:00 PM
 
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I am not helping cook or set up.
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Old 08-23-2015, 01:21 PM
 
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5:10.
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Old 08-23-2015, 01:29 PM
 
Location: Elsewhere
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Yes, I know I asked this same question about going to a friends house a few weeks ago, and you were all very helpful. However, my cousin is having a dinner tonight for his grandmother's birthday, and he told me 5pm. 5pm is an odd time because you don't really have time to do anything before. I've been home all day today, so I've been bored out of my mind and can't wait until it's time to go. So since my cousin said 5pm, what is the earliest possible time I can arrive without it being rude or intrusive? Like 4:45? 4:50? I know you'll all have different opinions, but I would like to hear what you think. If it helps, there will be about 10 people at this party.
I would get really annoyed if I invited people for 5 and they showed up early.

How is it possible to be bored? You don't have any books?
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Old 08-23-2015, 01:50 PM
 
Location: Sodo Sopa at The Villas above Kenny' s House.
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5pm isn't rude but around 5:15 is better. This question depends a lot on the culture of the host. There are very different social rules whether they come from a cyclical or future time orientation.
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Old 08-23-2015, 01:56 PM
 
Location: Canada
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I think between 4:50-5pm is fine.
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Old 08-23-2015, 02:27 PM
 
Location: Southwestern, USA, now.
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I need every minute getting ready...just knock on the door at 5, solves any question.
But 5 min early or late is ok...
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Old 08-23-2015, 02:38 PM
 
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5-5:15 is ideal. I am usually running around half naked those last couple minutes (because I dont want to get dressed until the last minute if I am cooking)
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Old 08-23-2015, 03:22 PM
 
Location: Virginia
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I wouldn't get there any earlier than 5:10-5:15. Dinner can involve a lot of snafus. You don't want to get there and find them preoccupied with putting out fires (literally or figuratively).
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