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It would not surprise me one bit if, even after she dies, you still carry a lot of your anger and resentment. Why? Because you've never learned how to deal with it. Her death won't change that. And just because she's not around anymore, that doesn't mean that all your issues will suddenly disappear.
We she see. But much of my resentment will likely dissipate after she's gone because she'll no longer be there to evoke it anymore. Out of sight, out of mind...
We she see. But much of my resentment will likely dissipate after she's gone because she'll no longer be there to evoke it anymore. Out of sight, out of mind...
She's 72, she could be around for another decade or two. Planning to live the next 20 years of your life like this? Get some help and reclaim your life.
We she see. But much of my resentment will likely dissipate after she's gone because she'll no longer be there to evoke it anymore. Out of sight, out of mind...
It's not always that simple. The lasting effects she's had on you as a person are still going to be there.
She's 72, she could be around for another decade or two. Planning to live the next 20 years of your life like this? Get some help and reclaim your life.
She has lupus and diabetes. It's unlikely she'll make it to 90. Another 8-10 years is more likely, and something I can deal with.
OP, you’re an adult now - your own person. She can’t hurt you anymore. I know, easy to say. I do think some have offered ok insight and advice and hope some of it has helped you rather than inflamed.
Justified or not, I’m sorry that you are suffering and wish you peace.
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