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Old 01-09-2013, 06:50 AM
 
Location: Home of the best seafood
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Hate them so much that they will call them every name in the but a child of God. Whores, ****, ugly, dirty, all kinds of mean things.

What causes such hate from another human to another??? One thing I noticed is that it usually stem from another man. If one woman has an advantage at meeting more men than the other, she gets hated for it, but I don't see men acting like this.

Example, Kim Kardashian, alot of women are promiscuous like Kim, but yet they hate her being that way.

What say you?
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Old 01-09-2013, 06:51 AM
 
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Insecurity. Jealous. Low self esteem.
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Old 01-09-2013, 06:54 AM
 
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Competition.

Or sincere dislike for the women on whom she comments.
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Old 01-09-2013, 06:56 AM
 
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Competetion.
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Old 01-09-2013, 07:34 AM
 
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At the fundamental core of it all--it is competition. Don't take it so personally. In fact, I think you'll find it's much easier to let this slide off your back when you understand and think about it differently. You see, we are not unlike animals who are territorial, vying for mates when we are in our child-bearing years, and securing resources to raise our offspring (food/shelter/etc.). Men behave similarly for the same reasons. But instead of so much name calling and catty behavior, they posture like peacocks, butt heads like billy goats, and chest thump like gorillas. (Do you see what I mean?) Women do these things too, but in slightly different ways. Name calling is one of them. We sting with our tongues whereas a man uses his body. We can learn a lot about ourselves if we just observe nature. For me, I just laugh at such things now...

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Old 01-09-2013, 07:36 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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Hate them so much that they will call them every name in the but a child of God. Whores, ****, ugly, dirty, all kinds of mean things.

What causes such hate from another human to another??? One thing I noticed is that it usually stem from another man. If one woman has an advantage at meeting more men than the other, she gets hated for it, but I don't see men acting like this.

Example, Kim Kardashian, alot of women are promiscuous like Kim, but yet they hate her being that way.

What say you?
I think there's a general stereotype that women are catty, vindictive gossips, more so than men at least, and I think it's so prevalent that many women internalize it and perpetuate it. Women who announce that they prefer the company of men seem to say these things, anyway, or that they don't particularly like other women. It could be that they do not enjoy social situations without sexual tension, who knows.
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Old 01-09-2013, 07:45 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Hate them so much that they will call them every name in the but a child of God. Whores, ****, ugly, dirty, all kinds of mean things.

What causes such hate from another human to another??? One thing I noticed is that it usually stem from another man. If one woman has an advantage at meeting more men than the other, she gets hated for it, but I don't see men acting like this.

Example, Kim Kardashian, alot of women are promiscuous like Kim, but yet they hate her being that way.

What say you?
Sounds like a classy crowd you hang out with. Where do you meet women like this? Too much drama.
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Old 01-09-2013, 07:53 AM
 
Location: Austin
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I don't know what it is about some women but they can be a mess. The drama, the backstabbing- no thank you. I guess it's competition but I don't know because I'm missing that gene. That's why I don't have a lot of female friends because once they start showing that sort of silliness I fade away. I prefer men as friends. Always have.
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Old 01-09-2013, 07:53 AM
 
Location: Home of the best seafood
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sounds like a classy crowd you hang out with. Where do you meet women like this? Too much drama.

lol
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Old 01-09-2013, 07:55 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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I think there's a general stereotype that women are catty, vindictive gossips, more so than men at least, and I think it's so prevalent that many women internalize it and perpetuate it. Women who announce that they prefer the company of men seem to say these things, anyway, or that they don't particularly like other women. It could be that they do not enjoy social situations without sexual tension, who knows.
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I don't know what it is about some women but they can be a mess. The drama, the backstabbing- no thank you. I guess it's competition but I don't know because I'm missing that gene. That's why I don't have a lot of female friends because once they start showing that sort of silliness I fade away. I prefer men as friends. Always have.
Backstabbing and drama is in our genes, you see.

I don't think a lot of women realize they do it, honestly.
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