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Old 07-25-2010, 10:14 PM
 
Location: lala land
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I just met my cousin and her husband for shopping and dinner. Me and her husband have a history of tension, and animosity but lately we've been trying to get along.

Everything went well until about the last 15 minutes of dinner when he snapped at me. I defended myself but felt completely taken aback and irritated. We managed to smooth things over for the rest of dinner, but I was ready to leave at that point.

I have been trying to get along with this man for the past 5 years, but I feel at this point that I am ready to give up. At times he has even prevented her from seeing me, and she has had to lie to him when we meet for something as simple as lunch.

I love my cousin, but I am simply tired of his crap.

Anyone else have to deal with this?
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Old 07-25-2010, 10:31 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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I just met my cousin and her husband for shopping and dinner. Me and her husband have a history of tension, and animosity but lately we've been trying to get along.

Everything went well until about the last 15 minutes of dinner when he snapped at me. I defended myself but felt completely taken aback and irritated. We managed to smooth things over for the rest of dinner, but I was ready to leave at that point.

I have been trying to get along with this man for the past 5 years, but I feel at this point that I am ready to give up. At times he has even prevented her from seeing me, and she has had to lie to him when we meet for something as simple as lunch.

I love my cousin, but I am simply tired of his crap.

Anyone else have to deal with this?

Can't you just see your cousin WITHOUT her husband? Sounds simple enough...
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Old 07-25-2010, 10:32 PM
 
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I can't stand my best friend's husband...they keep getting separated and back together again...I refuse to speak to him. Easy as that.
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Old 07-25-2010, 10:33 PM
 
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I can't stand my best friend's husband...they keep getting separated and back together again...I refuse to speak to him. Easy as that.
Would you feel bad if they were seperating because you won't speak to him?
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Old 07-25-2010, 10:35 PM
 
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Would you feel bad if they were seperating because you won't speak to him?
I don't have anything to do with their separations but if I knew I was doing something that would expedite a divorce I would do it in a New York minute.
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Old 07-25-2010, 10:36 PM
 
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I don't have anything to do with their separations but if I knew I was doing something that would expedite a divorce I would do it in a New York minute.
Oh. How do you know for sure that I'm not the spouse?
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Old 07-25-2010, 10:37 PM
 
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I can't stand my best friend's husband...they keep getting separated and back together again...I refuse to speak to him. Easy as that.
Are they together AGAIN...?!
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Old 07-25-2010, 10:38 PM
 
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Are they together AGAIN...?!
Together, apart, together, apart, together and apart again...for the time being Makes me dizzy!
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Old 07-25-2010, 10:38 PM
 
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Oh. How do you know for sure that I'm not the spouse?
Because you know how to spell
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Old 07-25-2010, 10:39 PM
 
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Because you know how to spell
My secretary does.
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