[Swansen]

right, lets stop the flame wars people, if you want to do battle, do it in private messages. As far as the OP's situation, would your husband consider joint custody?? Just from my experience, i wish it would have been that way. Instead i barely know my father, and really don't know my mother much better... It became an attention battle even though i only saw my father every other weekend. Your situation is very unfortunate, but i beg you, think of what will be best for your kids, and try to talk that through with your husband.

I know, i'm probably not helping your situation at all, but i just needed to say that.

[misweetdream]

There are two sides to every story, and in legal matters, everyone says they are the victim. I work in Family Law and see it all the time.

Find a pro bono atty through the bar.