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Where I grew up my neighborhood was mostly White and I attended private school. When I was in the 6th grade "Roots" debuted and a boy started calling me "Kizzy" and the other kids picked it up. It really hurt my feelings and I cried a lot that year.
Later the boy and I went to different private high schools and we met again at a dance. He asked me out on a date and I laughed in his face and couldn't stop laughing. "Kizzy" grew up to be rather pretty in h.s., what a creep!
Not in real life. But trolls on online dating sites have proactively reached out to me to call me lovely things like “ugly gorilla.” It happens a few time a year.
What made no sense to me is that these are people that live nowhere near me. Haven’t visited their pages. Would not be a type I would search for. So basically they are so lame they are bored enough to just go look for black women to send nasty messages to. Sad.
Too many times to count honestly. In fact, just last week during an argument, my ex texted me “Dumb ugly a*s. You’re f***ing ugly let me tell you that. I only said those things to make you feel good. But you’re a*s is ugly and weird looking. That’s why you was bullied. I’m glad you was.”
I am not overweight. Although I'm sixty, I'm often told I look ten years younger. However, that doesn't stop a certain relative from making scathing remarks about how I look old, fat, and ugly.
It used to bother me a lot but now I realize it's her problem not mine.
Not to my face, ever. One kid in high school said I wore "granny panties" which to this day I don't understand, because...I didn't. Another girl said I should be a model, which at first I thought she was saying sarcastically, but I think she meant it. I'm too short to be a model for sure, and I don't have the body type at all, but I have a unique face (I look like my dad and he's Puerto Rican via Spain/France). I still think it was nice of her to say.
This thread reminds me of another experience as a teenager when my mom brought myself and my cousin, who was a young boy at the time, to a fast food place. An older Latino man came up to us and told my mom she had a "very handsome son" and then said nothing about me, lol. I wasn't all that hurt but I did wonder why he ignored me. My mom said it was because my cousin was blond and blue-eyed -- that those features were more unique to Latinos -- and that if I went to the Scandinavian countries or a place where there were many blonds, they'd find me just as unique as he found my cousin. I always remembered that
Too many times to count honestly. In fact, just last week during an argument, my ex texted me “Dumb ugly a*s. You’re f***ing ugly let me tell you that. I only said those things to make you feel good. But you’re a*s is ugly and weird looking. That’s why you was bullied. I’m glad you was.”
Yeah, you should have said "well, duh, I know. If I had better looks, do you think I would have settled for having sex with YOU?"
My guess is, randomguy, you're completely average looking.
Not recently, but when I was a child I was ridiculed for having red hair. At the time, I believed that being a ginger made me ugly, but once I was a teenager, I realized that my hair was striking and truly beautiful. I still think it's my best physical trait.
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