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Unless it is a baseball cap for an outdoor/sporting type event, I'm not big on hats on men. I don't hate them, but they should come off whenever you go indoors. I guess a fedora, or if summery weather, a straw fedora-type hat would be ok at an outdoor event.
What I care most about is cleanliness. Does it look like he made the effort to put on a clean shirt and tuck it in? And I loathe the cartoon character ties. They might be cute or funny, but basically they scream, "Please don't make me be a grown up!"
I don't care what he has on his feet. He has feet??? If he has a cute body and a close-fitting nice shirt I will never notice his feet. Well, unless they're disgusting old shoes with holes or something.
Is jeans, loafers and a collared shirt the standard? Do you like something fancier? Do you expect your man to have a good sense of fashion and trends and such? I'm a little off with current fashion trends.
A dinner date? A drink at a bar date? A movie date? How much does his style matter?
Thanks for your responses.
It depends on the date, right? Not sure what you're getting at, OP. For a beach date, shorts would be fine, even cut-offs. A dinner date? Well, that would depend on the class of restaurant, right? I think it's silly to worry about being trendy. Be neat, clean, and appropriate to the occasion/venue. That's all.
I'm a guy, but it shouldn't be rocket science for an adult guy to figure out what's appropriate to wear on a date, depending on the venue and/or occasion. (Unless the date is in some really unusual place that he's never been before...but even then, a bit of Googling will help.) And of course, be clean, wear proper fitting clothes, put in a bit of effort without going overboard.
This is (or at least should be) common sense. Even accounting for one's personal tastes.
I don't care what he has on his feet. He has feet??? If he has a cute body and a close-fitting nice shirt I will never notice his feet. Well, unless they're disgusting old shoes with holes or something.
I'm with you! It must be the middle age. I don't care as much how the guy dresses as long as he has a nice body and face. LOL *Screams!
I would like that as well -though not a fan of plaid. Though I think I would prefer smooth casual dress-pants than jeans.
Overall, I think it would be nice is more men dressed up. Not a tux or a business suit. But a nice button shirt, with some nice pants and shoes.
NOW, of course everyone should wear what they want. And I don't look down on anyone's fashion. They like it. But far as a date and/or SO, I would prefer someone who made more effort and was a bit dressier rather than the sagging pants, faded jeans, or huge T-shirts, constant sneakers, and flip-flops. Or pajamas.
Obviously depends on where you're going though. For example, the attire I mentioned shouldn't be worn to the beach. lol
Last edited by HappyRain; 09-25-2016 at 12:42 AM..
Depends on the date, and also what he is comfortable in. As long as it looks nice on him it's fine, just no holey shirts/pants and hats inside. A dressed up guy is nice but not always practical and if they aren't comfortable in it then it could distract them.
Taste differs and each person is different but I agree that it's better to dress up than dress down. As a woman, I will always appreciate a bit of extra effort (and I'm sure it goes the other way round too).
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