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Old 03-02-2016, 09:01 PM
 
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So, 13-year-old DD picked this dress for an upcoming formal affair (her first) and now we need to decide what goes with it:

Calvin Klein Illusion Neck Chiffon Gown | Dillards

She wants to wear her hair down and curled (long).

How to accessorize? Should she wear a necklace with this understated illusion neckline?

I am thinking she should wear a silver metallic shoe (low heel for dancing) but not a flat. She doesn't wear high heels, and I am not keen on an open toe because she will be dancing.

She likes my shoe idea, but I am wondering more about jewelry. Pearls?

Suggestions from you savvy people?

Thank you in advance!
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Old 03-02-2016, 11:06 PM
 
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Short crystal necklace that is above her neckline.

Or a cute crystal clip in the hair. One of these, not both. No pearls, too matronly.

This high neckline is designed to show off the neck with an updo. When the hair is down, it may be better to pull back hair, such as in princess style.

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Old 03-03-2016, 12:41 AM
 
Location: San Antonio, TX
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No necklace, just long earrings that sparkle, and a bracelet. With the sheer, gathered neckline a necklace will look too busy. No pearls either.

A small sparkly purse would be good too. And lotion with a subtle shimmer for the arms.

And if she's more comfortable in flats, let her wear flats, as long as the dress doesn't drag on the ground.
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Old 03-03-2016, 02:06 AM
 
Location: Glasgow Scotland
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Pretty dress although I think a little old for that age of girl. but its her choice.. no necklace , the dress stands on its own.. just a small clutch bag and kitten heels If I could turn back time to that age Id want a flirty looking skater dress something like this.
http://www.asos.com/ASOS/ASOS-Square...4b6c-bb90-987c

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Old 03-03-2016, 04:41 AM
 
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that dress is going to look best with an updo of some sort, but no necklace. Maybe she could do a riff on Ariana Grande's high ponytail look? Long earrings with some sparkle and a cuff bracelet or lots of skinny metallic bangles. Because of the chiffon, I wouldn't go with a beaded bag b/c it will catch on the fabric and cause pulls. Maybe a satin bag sort of like this: http://handbagdujour.com/wp-content/...ning-bag-3.jpg
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Old 03-03-2016, 06:24 AM
 
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Chandelier crystal earrings, a bracelet, and a metallic clutch. No necklace with that neckline. It will compete.
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Old 03-03-2016, 06:29 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Agree on "no necklace."

13 seems young for long, dangly earrings, though. I would wear simple earrings and pull her hair halfway back with a flower or jeweled clip in it.
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Old 03-03-2016, 06:31 AM
 
Location: Glasgow Scotland
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I find earrings like that too much too , shes only a child yet...
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Old 03-03-2016, 06:47 AM
 
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Thanks for the suggestions!

It is always nice to invoke an "anonymous committee" when dealing with a thirteen year old. If this was for myself, I would have no problem, but I am working with a young teenager...

I was very delighted that she did not go after some of the glitzy, tacky too-much-skin and cleavage things that are out there in the stores being marketed to young girls now.

The event is black tie formal, so the dress had to be floor-length. She is tall and athletic, and already looks older than she is, so finding an age-appropriate dress in the juniors department was nearly impossible in her size. She usually has to shop in the ladies' department.

I shared some of your suggestions with her before school this morning, and she is now considering wearing her hair up. Yay!

And I agree that the earrings should not be too big or long and dangling.

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Old 03-03-2016, 07:46 AM
 
Location: South Carolina
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how about some simple silver hoop earrings and her hair pulled back in a top ponytail and a silver clutch bag .
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