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Michelle... you are asking What's wrong with wanting to be beautiful?
All is wrong because it is not a natural need.
First naturally you could never know what your looks is, maybe at crystal water surface on some rare days but your own eyes on your head are naturally placed by the way that you cannot see yourself "from outsiders perspective" as mirrors are able to show you or other people sadly are able to tell you no matter if it is positive or negative. Give an thought for this. Human is not meant to judge own looks, otherwise we would have extra eyeballs as selfie sticks which would belong into our dna.
What for you need to feel beautiful? What it serves for you? You created a need to yourself, that is self created need, you don't actually need to feel beautiful, it does not serve anything important surviving skill. It is just illusion.
Second beauty is subjective, some like flat noses and flat chest, some like high nose bridges and giant breasts.. Also these tastes are able to change.. So what do you follow? A trend? Why flat chest would not be beautiful in your own eyes?
Flat and small breasts are able to hang too but if they are up now just be happy to have small, less to carry, no surgery pain etc.
Why do you want to admire your breasts, you are a woman and want beautiful breasts to admire them so I cannot follow. Why would you need to admire your breasts?
Being feminine or being sexy if needed does not come from the breast size. I know, mine are extreamely big and I never felt feminine or sexy, huh.. It comes from your inner aura, it is inner energy. It all comes inside, it is not a cover. Having some type of cover could give a stigma but that also is societys and medias mistake, audiences mistake. Mistreat people because of prejudices.
You must also know that looks does not equal with happy. You would never let yourself to be happy, you would always find things that are wrong... Till you decide to be happy right now no matter how buttly all things around you are.
Confidence comes inside too. Your body will change during your life time, you could burn in a house fire or car accident etc. Dont let your confidence to be depending on looks and outside factors. Factors can always change. What you would do then?
Look inside yourself and find yourself your confidence because inside = your brain is only thing that is with you always. And when it stops working, then it really does not bother what your looks is..
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