Received something from a female co-worker today that was really nice and was wondering if it means something more? (pregnant, internet)
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Raena I'm only asking because she could have just thanked me face to face right? She went to hallmark and took time out to write this little note so I wasn't sure. That's why I ask, Never received anything like this before
Don't read more into it. It sounds like it was just her way of expressing her appreciation. Now perhaps you might ask yourself whether you were helping her out in the hopes of something more and then hopefully reading MORE into her gesture than it really is. Don't make a move, just wait to see what happens.
I been helping this female coworker who has been on the job about a month because she expressed to me how she hated public presentations. So I made the presentations for her by giving her tips through the week.
Today I arrive to work and I see in my mailbox. It was a card with "Sweet" on the front and the inside read
"I really appreciate you extending yourself this past week, it really means a lot to me. Thank you so much for your support and encouragement and it won't be forgotten."
Showing her appreciaton to me or possibly showing interest?
I suppose in "the world according to Solomon", she's showing interest. Why, oh why, can you not ever take anything at face value? The card says, "thank you for your help." That's what it means! There is not a sinister meaning behind every word, eye-blink, hand-gesture (no, not finger gesture), nod, and word. Somethings are just what they seem.
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Surprise, surprise - some people are thoughtful and have manners.
Amen
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Yes, I help women who are 20-24 who were laid off or fired or dropped out of high school gain job search skills
I hope there is someone around to teach them grammar/spelling.
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Seriously, I send thank you cards to damn near everyone. Even if I could just say thanks face to face. It's just a nice gesture.
This girl doesn't want you, she just has manners.
Maybe she left the card because she DOESN'T want to talk to you face to face....now there's an idea...
Yeah, she's afraid he'll make it into something it isn't. So distance is best. She might have been warned!
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Don't pay attention to any one.
More advice to fall on deaf ears -- he NEVER pays attention to any one.
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She was just being nice. Stop reading into everything. It's very annoying
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Don't read more into it. It sounds like it was just her way of expressing her appreciation. Now perhaps you might ask yourself whether you were helping her out in the hopes of something more and then hopefully reading MORE into her gesture than it really is. Don't make a move, just wait to see what happens.
Right, don't make a move. But don't wait for more to happen. It is what is - Thank you. Now back the hell off!
I been helping this female coworker who has been on the job about a month because she expressed to me how she hated public presentations. So I made the presentations for her by giving her tips through the week.
Today I arrive to work and I see in my mailbox. It was a card with "Sweet" on the front and the inside read
"I really appreciate you extending yourself this past week, it really means a lot to me. Thank you so much for your support and encouragement and it won't be forgotten."
Showing her appreciaton to me or possibly showing interest?
Well I haven't read the rest of the thread, but in case someone hasn't pointed it out yet the word "Sweet" is a code in the S&M world. Or so I've been told.
I checked with someone that would know and the words "appreciate, extending, support, encouragement and forgotten" are codes as well.
The real message she is sending you is this:
"Turn up to my house wearing a bib and ladies white stockings with a $10 bill between your teeth. Bring zip ties, a can of Crisco and a riding cane. 8:30 PM tonight, be there"
That's what it means. I'd get busy and certainly sounds more fun that watching TV.
Why is it that whenever a woman does something nice for someone else, and that someone else happens to be male, that male thinks she wants him?
Seriously. Because I'm beginning to wonder if that's how some men think: They only do something nice for someone else when they want to get into that person's pants, so they think everyone is like that.
Seriously. Because I'm beginning to wonder if that's how some men think: They only do something nice for someone else when they want to get into that person's pants, so they think everyone is like that.
A lot do, I hear it all the time. And you can thank this ridiculous personality trait for being the foundation behind a lot of male jealousy.
Well I haven't read the rest of the thread, but in case someone hasn't pointed it out yet the word "Sweet" is a code in the S&M world. Or so I've been told.
I checked with someone that would know and the words "appreciate, extending, support, encouragement and forgotten" are codes as well.
The real message she is sending you is this:
"Turn up to my house wearing a bib and ladies white stockings with a $10 bill between your teeth. Bring zip ties, a can of Crisco and a riding cane. 8:30 PM tonight, be there"
That's what it means. I'd get busy and certainly sounds more fun that watching TV.
PICs please!!
Please please please don't forget the ballgag - this is one case where it's definitely needed.
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