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Old 12-23-2023, 11:37 PM
 
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Looking for a good book or essay about how to prepare to die. I already read Phaedo and frankly found it kind of laughable. Anyone who deals with death by pretending that it's not real is not serious IMHO. I liked Tuesdays with Morrie better but it didn't really give me much to work with. Has someone already looked at the major traditions around the world and distilled their wisdom?
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Old 12-24-2023, 01:39 PM
 
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Looking for a good book or essay about how to prepare to die. I already read Phaedo and frankly found it kind of laughable. Anyone who deals with death by pretending that it's not real is not serious IMHO. I liked Tuesdays with Morrie better but it didn't really give me much to work with. Has someone already looked at the major traditions around the world and distilled their wisdom?
how about We Don't Die, by George Anderson. www.georgeanderson.com or Many Lives, Many Masters by Dr. Brian Weiss, www.brianweiss.com

Both excellent reads, more real life experiences about death than made up stuff like Tuesdays with Morrie.
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Old 12-24-2023, 01:46 PM
 
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Tibetan book of living and dying,it gives tell tale signs of death and how to reincarnate.
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Old 12-24-2023, 03:18 PM
 
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Looking for a good book or essay about how to prepare to die. I already read Phaedo and frankly found it kind of laughable. Anyone who deals with death by pretending that it's not real is not serious IMHO. I liked Tuesdays with Morrie better but it didn't really give me much to work with. Has someone already looked at the major traditions around the world and distilled their wisdom?
how about We Don't Die, by George Anderson. www.georgeanderson.com or Many Lives, Many Masters by Dr. Brian Weiss, www.brianweiss.com

Both excellent reads, more real life experiences about death than made up stuff like Tuesdays with Morrie.
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Old 12-24-2023, 07:53 PM
 
Location: Denver, CO
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I don't believe in reincarnation or life after death. I might be interested in reading about these topics later, but right now I'm looking for ideas from thinkers who also accept that death is real and not survivable. I'm not concerned about grief or reconnecting with loved ones who had already gone, just a respectful treatment of what being a mortal being means.
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Old 12-25-2023, 09:07 AM
 
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Try Breath Becomes Air by Paul Kalanthi.

It's an account from a doctor who has contracted Stage 4 cancer, and he gives a very practical and two-sided (from a healthcare/scientist) perspective of death. I've recommended to anybody who has cancer. They typically don't like it because he does in fact die, but it's a phenomenal read.

I liked it better than Tuesdays with Morrie.
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Old 12-25-2023, 10:51 AM
 
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I read a book as a teenager, “death be not proud” by John Gunther. I had lost a brother in a tragic accident a few years earlier and I was trying to understand death and especially young people’s death. It was a very difficult read, but also therapeutic for me. My mom read it also and we had daily discussions about it. My dad could not read it. ( he never talked about my brothers death, the rest of his life and he lived to be 81)

I hope this book helps you in some way.
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Old 12-25-2023, 11:18 AM
 
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I just ordered a copy of "A Graceful Farewell", by Maggie Watson to help me get my affairs in order.
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Old 12-25-2023, 11:50 AM
 
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I had a great sociology class in the '80s, Death and Dying. IIRC Kubler-Ross's book Death and Dying was pretty good.
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Old 12-28-2023, 05:16 PM
 
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How about NDE, or temporary death experience books? Might point to the often-reported wonders on the other side. They seem to uplift a lot of people. So, less on the death matter, and more on the transition matter.
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