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Unhappily married.
Oh Gosh. I'm not the only one? I do not hate my husband. I love him dearly. The problem is, we are very different. I married this man to have a best friend....companion...someone with me at night. Yeah! I like to be around him and do special things with him! Is that bad thing? Yes...we have friends, separate and couple friends. He hunts/fishes....so gets plenty of time for personal time. I spend personal time at garage sales, going on drives, hangin with friends. I just feel so unhappy. I try to talk with him about it and it always turns into a fight. I feel alone and by myself alot. LIke tonight. We were going to spend the evening together but at 10 pm (he says because it's Friday who cares) he is going over to his friends to help him fix a motor on the boat for fishing tomorrow. I am feeling very emotional and constantly put on the back burner. I feel like he doesn't listen and NEVER agrees with me on anything. I feel like he is unthoughtful and I just am so confused. It makes me resent him. His parents have an odd relationship in my opinion. I think he sees their relationship and thinks that is how they should be (relationships). We are both in our late 20's been married for 2 years, together for 6. No kids...just our dog. So back to his parents, dad is very grumpy, in pain alot, center of attention, and whiny. He also says his opinion constantly and I find it offensive sometimes. His mom doesn't work, lives with the fact that her husband ******* at her constantly, and doesn't really help her with much. Father in law doesn't work either. His mom actually told me at one point that she wanted to leave him! Then recently she told me they were doing better, but then later told me that she just learned to ignore his behavior and do her own thing. I am sorry. I don't want to do my own thing. I married to have a spouse, friend, and companion that I can identify and talk with. I feel that my husband is turning into his father. Sort of uncaring, negative, hypocondriac, and unthoughtful. I will be talking with him but we have been unable to resolve our differences on what a relationship should be. So I am now going to talk with him about going to counseling. I am unwilling to live another day unhappy and alone in my marriage. Maybe it's me...so that's why I am going to try an figure this out. Any comments or advise welcome. Good night.
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Unhappily married.
Oh Gosh. I'm not the only one? I do not hate my husband. I love him dearly. The problem is, we are very different. I married this man to have a best friend....companion...someone with me at night. Yeah! I like to be around him and do special things with him! Is that bad thing? Yes...we have friends, separate and couple friends. He hunts/fishes....so gets plenty of time for personal time. I spend personal time at garage sales, going on drives, hangin with friends. I just feel so unhappy. I try to talk with him about it and it always turns into a fight. I feel alone and by myself alot. LIke tonight. We were going to spend the evening together but at 10 pm (he says because it's Friday who cares) he is going over to his friends to help him fix a motor on the boat for fishing tomorrow. I am feeling very emotional and constantly put on the back burner. I feel like he doesn't listen and NEVER agrees with me on anything. I feel like he is unthoughtful and I just am so confused. It makes me resent him. His parents have an odd relationship in my opinion. I think he sees their relationship and thinks that is how they should be (relationships). We are both in our late 20's been married for 2 years, together for 6. No kids...just our dog. So back to his parents, dad is very grumpy, in pain alot, center of attention, and whiny. He also says his opinion constantly and I find it offensive sometimes. His mom doesn't work, lives with the fact that her husband ******* at her constantly, and doesn't really help her with much. Father in law doesn't work either. His mom actually told me at one point that she wanted to leave him! Then recently she told me they were doing better, but then later told me that she just learned to ignore his behavior and do her own thing. I am sorry. I don't want to do my own thing. I married to have a spouse, friend, and companion that I can identify and talk with. I feel that my husband is turning into his father. Sort of uncaring, negative, hypocondriac, and unthoughtful. I will be talking with him but we have been unable to resolve our differences on what a relationship should be. So I am now going to talk with him about going to counseling. I am unwilling to live another day unhappy and alone in my marriage. Maybe it's me...so that's why I am going to try an figure this out. Any comments or advise welcome. Good night.