Welcome!!!
As far as the answer to your question, you posted this thread in the Work & Employment forum. In this forum, we discuss topics only related to the labor market.
If you're trying to get a feel what the quality of life is in different cities through the country, you may receive a better response by posting your question in the General U.S. forum:
https://www.city-data.com/forum/general-u-s/
You can also select the forum for a specific city that sparks your interest from the home page of the City Data forum and post your question there.
For example, if you're interested in learning more about New York City, you can visit the New York City forum and create a thread there to ask your question. You can them receive responses from the actual residents of New York City who frequent that forum...
https://www.city-data.com/forum/new-york-city/