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This has to do with relationships, because I feel it has a huge deal to do with it.
Lately, he has been messed up. We will be rip, roarin`, ready to go, and it..ain`t.
Then, when it does succeed, it only takes a few minites, and its done, and its not ...."all the way."
It leaves you hangin`...."What the heck was that?"
He is going to the doctor tomorrow, but just wondered if anyone else has went through this drama?
It could be due to stress, fatigue,depression, anger/resentment being witheld from you, not attracted to the person any longer, feeling of insecurity (now that the issue has risen), medications he might be taking, alcohol and/or drugs, age related... A dozen and one things can possibly have that effect on it.
Hopefully it's just a temporary situation for you guys and it gets working like it used to before!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It can be a vicious cycle too. If something goes wrong once, then there's that constant worry that it's going to happen again, and that causes it to happen again, then the worry, then the problem. ETC ETC.
I recommend a blood pressure check, blood sugar check, testosterone check, prostate exam, plus is he sleeping enough? Worrying about something else? Recent big weight gain? Taking any new meds, including OTC meds like sinus/cold meds? So many things can cause it, usually not a big deal to fix if you find the source of the problem. Just knocks the ego down a peg or two temporarily.
Ya` all are awesome! Thanks so much!
We just tried it again. I got him to stop thinking about it so much, and it worked... it was quick, but hey, it worked!
Ya` all are awesome! Thanks so much!
We just tried it again. I got him to stop thinking about it so much, and it worked... it was quick, but hey, it worked!
I would keep in mind that if he can take care of himself in private, it's not a medical issue. It's his mind set and he got snagged up somehow. When he's alone, he's not worried about failure or the embarrassment associated with a limpy.
That is if you can get him to admit he chokes the chicken
I would keep in mind that if he can take care of himself in private, it's not a medical issue. It's his mind set and he got snagged up somehow. When he's alone, he's not worried about failure or the embarrassment associated with a limpy.
That is if you can get him to admit he chokes the chicken
Now why would he want to choke his own chicken, when I`ll choke it for him?
How would he get snagged up somehow?
Now why would he want to choke his own chicken, when I`ll choke it for him?
How would he get snagged up somehow?
Well, guys are like dogs. They all whack it here and there no matter what they say. Trust me, they do and it has nothing to do with you. (wish all girls would know that!)
A guy I work with got caught by his long time GF masturbating and she dumped him for it...she likened it to cheating somehow.
By "snagged up" it could have been some random time where he wasn't in the mood, liquored up, or took some type of medicine and was unable to perform as normal. As mentioned before, he was worried it may happen again.
Much the same as people who suffer from panic attacks will always avoid situations that triggered the original attack. (hope that explaination makes sense)
Well, guys are like dogs. They all whack it here and there no matter what they say. Trust me, they do and it has nothing to do with you. (wish all girls would know that!)
By "snagged up" it could have been some random time where he wasn't in the mood, liquored up, or took some type of medicine and was unable to perform as normal. As mentioned before, he was worried it may happen again.
Much the same as people who suffer from panic attacks will always avoid situations that triggered the original attack. (hope that explaination makes sense)
I appreciate your input, I think? We are thinking its either medical, or mental...maybe both, but I think taking "matters into thy own hands" is out of the question on this one!
Once a guy has a little failure or two it becomes a mental thing most of the time. He may see the moment of love starting to happen and then the "I hope I can get it hard" doubt kicks in and then it's all over.
Good thing they have those little happy D*** pills nowadays. A little advice... they take a while to kick in so give him a little notice. Also, advise him to make sure you are in the mood before he takes his pill. Nothing worse then momma telling you shes not in the mood when you thought she was.
Personally, I used all 3 brands and they all work. Lavitra does not give you the headache Viagra users sometime get. Cialas is my favorite cause it seems to linger for days in the system.
My family doctor had given me some samples a few years back when they 1st came out. The next time he saw my wife he asked her how she liked the Viagra. It took her a moment to figure that one out.
Modern medicine is wonderful. If he's over weight, dropping a few pound will also help the blood flow.
I appreciate your input, I think? We are thinking its either medical, or mental...maybe both, but I think taking "matters into thy own hands" is out of the question on this one!
I'm suggesting you find out if he is able to take care of himself with no problem. If he can, the parts are working just fine.
Then you have effectively narrowed it down to a mental problem. If it's mental, that should help him out tremendously to know there is nothing wrong with him. Just don't pressure him or you will scare his thing away for good!
I'm 26 and was with a girl once and she demanded we have sex in an uncomfortable situation (her parents being near). Well, I couldn't get myself to do it. Needless to say, my penis no longer liked her and I went to find another lady. (she was a pain in the ass anyway lol)
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