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Should I be a friend and tell her, (but if so how do i put it to her?) Or do i leave well alone because its none of my business. (I am trying to solve things in my relationship at the moment and I have a lot on my plate, and I am really not sure what to do or how to go about doing things).
It's your business. She's your friend and friends expect each other to look out for one another. If her husband catches something and passes it on to your friend, how will you feel knowing that you could've prevented that? Or what if he gets her pregnant? People often look the other way and tell themselves it's none of their business. I find that the easy way out. At the very least, I would go to him and say "I know what you're doing." Then maybe he'll confess.
It's your business. She's your friend and friends expect each other to look out for one another. If her husband catches something and passes it on to your friend, how will you feel knowing that you could've prevented that? Or what if he gets her pregnant? People often look the other way and tell themselves it's none of their business. I find that the easy way out. At the very least, I would go to him and say "I know what you're doing." Then maybe he'll confess.
Or pull a John Edwards and get to start paying child support for the next 18 years. Then the woman will be in his life from now on.
There are conflicting opinions, both of which have a point. Which is the initial reason; why I was torn between my options in the first place. But I think I’ll ask my friend "hypothetically" what she'd do if she saw a friend's husband cheating on his wife. And let my actions follow, depending on her answer. (if she says she'd rather know, if it was her, then ill tell her what I saw (nothing more); if she says its none of her business she shouldn't get involved then I wont tell.) This is the best compromise I can think of.
Thank you for your replies. Very much appreciated.
Would I tell? In a hearbeat. If the shoe was on the other foot, of course I'd want to know. VD & AIDS are no fun.
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But thanks for the display. It clears up a lot of things.
